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His wife bears no responsibility for his behavior and actions. None.
I heartily agree, but this is the Gothard teaching in which she's been immersed. The bias is toward blaming the victim ... in the case of molestation, you somehow brought it on yourself through revealing / immodest dress or somethig; in the case of unfaithfulness you weren't keeping an inviting enough home, being emotionally available, submissive, respectful, or a sufficiently enthusiastic / frequent sex partner. All while keeping house and changing diapers.
The concept is that if you do things god's way it will Just Work and if something goes wrong you didn't do it god's way or follow god's established order or your attitude was wrong or ... well the list is pretty much endless.
Yes, but through her training, she has been taught that it is her fault.
She is expected to be a breeding machine, raising dozens of kids at once to expand their god's army; exhausted with no sleep, up all night taking care of sick kids, maintain a clean home, cook all the meals, have time to bathe herself, wear makeup, do her hair, and look fancy for her husband in the middle of all this slave-style child rearing. She is expected to work the equivalent of multiple full time jobs, 24/7 and be there at all times to satisfy her husband sexually, regardless of how sick, tired or physically ravaged her body is from repeated back-to-back pregnancies and childbirth tearing her up and wearing her down.
People who breed animals like this are called cruel, inhumane, and labelled factory farms and puppy mills. Places where the animal's wellbeing is not taken into account because breeding as much as possible with unhealthy successive births is the priority. With the Duggar's this is the goal and considered an achievement.
I remember when Michelle, the mother, took the girls aside and had a talk with them about marriage. Her "sex talk" and marriage advice equated to telling the girls that they must be there for sex at any time the husband demanded it no matter how exhausted they were.
I am sure that Josh's wife is 100% blaming herself for his sexual perversions; she has been trained since childhood to do so. The same way the victims of his pedophile sex crimes are taught in their educational church books to self-blame by examining their code of dress and behavior to see if they were acting as a temptress to men, causing them to be raped or sexually assaulted.
The reality of this is so overwhelming that my heart is just sick about the many families that are victimized by this religious garbage. It is unconscionable. Those who perpetuate it carry a heavy burden indeed.
“Maybe not publicly, ever, but privately, there will be some suggestion of whether or not she should have been more aware of the pressures Josh was under, of the issues he was facing, and how she could have better counseled him or helped him.”
"The 27-year-old - who shares four children with Josh - will likely 'on some level.... absorb some of the blame' for her spouse's cheating and addiction to online porn, a Duggar family insider says."
Well of course it is all her fault. He is after all, a Duggar and Duggars are perfect in every way.
“Maybe not publicly, ever, but privately, there will be some suggestion of whether or not she should have been more aware of the pressures Josh was under, of the issues he was facing, and how she could have better counseled him or helped him.”
"The 27-year-old - who shares four children with Josh - will likely 'on some level.... absorb some of the blame' for her spouse's cheating and addiction to online porn, a Duggar family insider says."
So who are the other 30 million people that got busted? Seems to me like this whole thing is BS.
I'm afraid he is a celebrity with a strange twist on what he gets paid to do. Hired to make Christians look like idiots .
Who would enter a credit card number in a pornsight anyway?
Of the thousands of political figures in Washington and across this country not one name yet out of 30 million ...
Whoever does not see thru this is pretty stupid .
And I'm afraid the lowest of whoever they are that organized this is Duggar himself.
It amazes me how his name stood out among 30,000,000 others by whoever supposedly got his hands on it .
To bad we will never see his name on this list and the so called 30 million others
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So who are the other 30 million people that got busted? Seems to me like this whole thing is BS.
I'm afraid he is a celebrity with a strange twist on what he gets paid to do. Hired to make Christians look like idiots .
Who would enter a credit card number in a pornsight anyway?
It is not a porn site, it is a dating site for people cheating on their spouses. And until now, very profitable, and with an air of discretion that was strictly illusory. They even extorted a fee from people who wanted every trace of their profile erased, took the money and did nothing.
I.T. experts have reviewed the user data as well as a larger cache of stolen company internal documents released subsequently, and have deemed it legit.
I don't understand your question about where the other people are ... they are wherever they are. Not all are as famous / hypocritical as Duggar. They are just Little People whose wives are leaving them right about now. They don't individually make the news for the most part.
Hired to make Christians look like idiots? They don't need to hire anyone to do that.
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