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Old 03-27-2011, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Encinitas
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I have no issues dating black girls, except I've seen maybe 5 total.lol

And some of u are right, you can't use SD's small size to excuse its ignorant racism.. I've been to smaller places that were less racist.. anyway I'm just glad I'm talking about this issue and I hear people agreeing with me.. but let's not forget I said I looove sd.. great weather, beautiful calm place.. my only issue is the hidden racism that exists here..
Racism is everywhere. Get over it and live your life. It's never going to change. That said, I think San Diego (and the West Coast in general) is less bigoted than other areas of the country (South, Midwest, etc.) So you're complaining about a problem that is not as bad here compared to other places, which is kind of strange, but then so is this entire thread.
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Old 03-27-2011, 11:24 AM
 
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its everywhere, but its also in SD..
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Old 03-27-2011, 12:10 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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its everywhere, but its also in SD..
I went down to National City to get a boat part after work. Let's just say I wasn't treated to well by the workers. They decided to charge me double for a part and were quite open about it. Maybe if they realized I knew Spanish ha ha.

So ya, it's everywhere.
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Old 03-27-2011, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Oxnard, CA
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You can't spend your life wondering what areas are racist or what have you....I live in Ventura County...and I'm a black female. The whole black population of this county is less than 2%...I didn't factor that into my move here. I had a job opportunity and I went with it. If I let fear hold me back, I can only wonder what my life would have been considering I was living in Missouri at that time.

You are right..racism is everywhere and the first time I was called the n word was right here in Ventura County...did I pack up my bags and leave...nope....I just figure some people are stupid, uneducated, without culture. etc..

You keep saying that these particular girls don't want you.....well I am sure there are others that just might find you to be their prince charming. If you're talking to girls you are meeting online, be upfront and post a picture in your profile so everyone knows what they are dealing with..I think that's only fair. When I was online dating, I posted a full body picture of myself so I had no hidden agendas! LOL!

Best of luck!
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Old 03-27-2011, 12:31 PM
 
Location: TMI
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What a thread LOL

^^ what she said. She seems to be very smart.
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Old 03-27-2011, 12:33 PM
 
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You can't spend your life wondering what areas are racist or what have you....I live in Ventura County...and I'm a black female. The whole black population of this county is less than 2%...I didn't factor that into my move here. I had a job opportunity and I went with it. If I let fear hold me back, I can only wonder what my life would have been considering I was living in Missouri at that time.

You are right..racism is everywhere and the first time I was called the n word was right here in Ventura County...did I pack up my bags and leave...nope....I just figure some people are stupid, uneducated, without culture. etc..

You keep saying that these particular girls don't want you.....well I am sure there are others that just might find you to be their prince charming. If you're talking to girls you are meeting online, be upfront and post a picture in your profile so everyone knows what they are dealing with..I think that's only fair. When I was online dating, I posted a full body picture of myself so I had no hidden agendas! LOL!

Best of luck!
nice post.. holy crap someone called u the n word???

wow..lol thats some tolerance level u have there.... this is 2011 people... jeez
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Old 03-27-2011, 12:34 PM
 
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I went down to National City to get a boat part after work. Let's just say I wasn't treated to well by the workers. They decided to charge me double for a part and were quite open about it. Maybe if they realized I knew Spanish ha ha.

So ya, it's everywhere.
haha u should have told them u arent a stupid american(in spanish)

lol
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Old 03-27-2011, 12:49 PM
 
Location: TMI
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I didn't read the whole thread, but..... You used an online dating site and didn't put any pictures online??? I'm sorry but I wouldn't even talk to anybody who dosent have any pictures online I would give them some credit for even responding LOL. And there are AA folks who are generally into AA, white folks who are generally into whites etc. You have a preference yourself. You can't call people racist just because you feel mistreated. You're doing the same they are doing because you have a preference.

Now, if you just want to get laid, go to the clubs and bars
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Old 03-27-2011, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Oxnard, CA
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What a thread LOL

^^ what she said. She seems to be very smart.
Thanks!

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nice post.. holy crap someone called u the n word???

wow..lol thats some tolerance level u have there.... this is 2011 people... jeez
Someone called me the n word in 2001.....ten years ago..I just smiled and laughed it off...I was in Camarillo, CA when that happened but again, not everyone is mentally stable...I have to chalk it up to that!
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Old 03-27-2011, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Oxnard, CA
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I didn't read the whole thread, but..... You used an online dating site and didn't put any pictures online??? I'm sorry but I wouldn't even talk to anybody who dosent have any pictures online I would give them some credit for even responding LOL. And there are AA folks who are generally into AA, white folks who are generally into whites etc. You have a preference yourself. You can't call people racist just because you feel mistreated. You're doing the same they are doing because you have a preference.

Now, if you just want to get laid, go to the clubs and bars
I got to give it to you...put that profile pic up! And not just a face pic either...full body!!

You are right about preferences. I too have a preference in the men I date but I would go and have gone outside of that preference but you can't help what you like!
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