How Do You Feel About Purity Balls? (middle east, supporter, children)

[Hot_Handz]

Originally Posted by gizmo980

If not, you could always get some "fresh balls": FreshBalls.com | The Natural Solution

(they always advertise this product on Howard Stern - that's the only reason I know about it, lol)

I condone the usage of anything that will purify or freshen balls.



Except 8 y.o virgins

[mb1547]

Originally Posted by Californian34

and it's wrong to teach a girl that the most valuable thing she has can be lost by a few minutes of in and out. that's terrible. instead of these days stalking their daughters "purity", why not emphasize the things that will make her a wonderful, valuable person all her life.

Plus, the horrible thing with that attitude is that if the priority is on virginity, a girl is "ruined" by one mistake. No one should have to live with that--we're all human and sex isn't dirty or bad--it's a natural part of life. Besides--what happens if you're raped or sexually abused? The next step is to slide back into the dark ages (or the modern Taliban) and stone her to death for being sexually active, even if it was against her will.

[The Dark Enlightenment]

Originally Posted by mb1547

Welcome to the modern world. I can make decisions about my own body, thank you very much.

Can you though? Lots of people find that very difficult, hence the appeal of religion and groups like this which provide structure.

[Ceece]

My dad and I entered a father-daughter cake baking contest once and my own daughter had a sock hop style dance with her dad when she was a girl scout. I think both of those thing modeled better behavior and were more wholesome than a purity ball, which is just creepy and focused on sex. Why do religious people focus on sex so dang much?

[mb1547]

Originally Posted by The Dark Enlightenment

Can you though? Lots of people find that very difficult, hence the appeal of religion and groups like this which provide structure.

I've been doing just fine on my own for nearly 60 years.

[Hot_Handz]

I think a man who needs a virgin is insecure...I understand the reasoning in a way but I think it's more of a cop out than anything. Personally, I didn't want to go through the work of training a virgin to do things exactly how I liked. I never minded my woman being preseasoned.

Used cast iron pans are the best.

Get tested together if you're that worried

[Californian34]

Originally Posted by The Dark Enlightenment

Informed choices? Little risk? Come on. That kind of sex isn't very sexy to most people.

sounds like a personal problem. I mean, if you insist on going raw dog, it's probably best you remain a virgin until you're married.

[The Dark Enlightenment]

Originally Posted by mb1547

I've been doing just fine on my own for nearly 60 years.

Really? No drinking? No self-help books even? No Oprah? ...cats?

[mb1547]

Originally Posted by The Dark Enlightenment

Really? No drinking? No self-help books even? No Oprah? ...cats?

Now you're just being...odd. The conversation was about making decisions about my own body vs. having an outside group set rules for me. And for the record, I've been married for almost 30 years.

[Ceece]

Originally Posted by The Dark Enlightenment

Really? No drinking? No self-help books even? No Oprah? ...cats?

Many of us can structure our own lives. It's not that hard but yes, I have a cat.