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Old 05-12-2016, 11:25 PM
 
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And in this perfect world I would still have the waistline and six pack abs that I had when I was 19. We each would have a playboy playmate on our arm, a genius level IQ, and perfect credit... There would be peace and no world hunger, and NO Kardashian family to contaminate our TV's with!

Unfortunately though, until then we are all stuck in the *real* world.
Well I really didn't aim my post at you. Just all the people who say it is wrong to desire and take revenge. Just like bullying is apparently normal and natural for some people so is wanting revenge against the bully and the effect they have.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:32 PM
 
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Well, that kinda makese sense to me because it was a one on one event and he saw who it was.


But what the OP did is just stupid IMO. That's not real revenge if the other person doesnt' know from whom he gets it. It was cowardly and cheap, he didn't even dare meeting him and look in his eyes. Cheap.

No, I called him from a burner phone in the end and told him I was someone from his past, and he said a bunch of names while I laughed an AUTHENTIC super-villain evil laugh. Before I hung up on him as he sounded like he was about to CRY I told him to kiss my feet and hung up.

He knows he was punished for something he did long ago, and that is enough. In fact, the idea that he will never know for sure is another layer of torment.

And assault is illegal. What I did was legal, believe it or not. And I prefer a more civilized means of destroying someone besides brute force. A beating, which would require me to go to his state and spend money on a plane ticket? No thanks...but losing his job, his girl, and winning the ire of very mean people? Oh that is something entirely different.

He can recover from a beating a lot faster than he, an ex-felon, can find another job.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:35 PM
 
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So he beat the shiit out of you and humiliated you on a regular basis and you harassed him on the internet.

And you call that revenge...

Be careful patting yourself on the back, I'd hate for you to get a cramp.

Oi! Again, I cost him his job, his girl, made life very, VERY rough for him and trolled some very, VERY dangerous people, using a fake FB account under his name, and gave them all his home address and asked them to confront "me" in person if they were man enough...

It was not just sending him an IM calling him a plebe.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:40 PM
 
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Yeah, its better to just choke on it for the rest of your life.. Tell yourself how you're a "better person," and how you refuse to stoop to his level and all that happy horseshiit.

AMEN!

All shrinks do is deny that any human being on Earth has a "dark side." I use quotes because it isn't really "darkness" as much as it is human nature.

Before I stopped seeing my shrink he said I had a lot of "anger," despite the fact that I can't get angry and my "anger" never manifest. I said I don't, but have hatred. He never once could bring himself to say I feel hate and he even tried to convince me that hate is not healthy.

Yep, hate is wrong...in WWII, the allies should have LOVED the Nazis. I guess the Kurds should Love ISIS and invite them to tea? No need to "retaliate" when their sisters and daughters get turned into sex-slaves.

What is love without hate? What is light without darkness? What is forgiveness without animosity?

If you want to be a well balanced, happy person, you should embrace balance. That's what no shrink seems to understand.

And I do forgive a lot of people, and I actually had a long email exchange with another bully who changed a lot and was very sorry for what he did, even though that was just a little roughing-up and not NEARLY KILLING ME.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:43 PM
 
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I don't see the difference. What does a terrorist do? Try to get you to submit to their will by performing cruel acts. What does a bully do? Try to get you to submit to their will by doing cruel acts.

Exactly. This guy nearly killed me...LITERALLY! HE HAD A BELT AROUND MY NECK AND WOULD HAVE CHOKED ME TO DEATH HAD I NOT OF KISSED HIS FEET!

Anyone who thinks that's just "typical childhood bullying" is a lot more messed up than the guy who sends a transexual hooker to someone's house to make his girl flip out. Just sayin'.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:54 PM
 
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Well OP, I just hope you feel better and you can finally move on. I'm not going to assume your story is fabricated again this guy was far more than a bully, he was psychotic.
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Old 05-13-2016, 05:07 AM
 
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I am glad op did not went back to old school and started schoolshooting but targeted only this person who was hurting in person.

Good choice

If someone needs revenge then at least this is better than shootings that some others choosed to do.

Of course we can whine after total zero-tolerance and non-revenge but I just wish everyone would do like he did... Instead shooting.
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Old 05-13-2016, 08:07 AM
 
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Well, that kinda makese sense to me because it was a one on one event and he saw who it was.


But what the OP did is just stupid IMO. That's not real revenge if the other person doesnt' know from whom he gets it. It was cowardly and cheap, he didn't even dare meeting him and look in his eyes. Cheap.

Yep. Big bad, hiding behind a computer screen.

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Nope, there are a lot worse than me on 4chan. I only target people who are rotten, some of them target everyone.


Here is my next target I think I'll join in the other who are having a blast finding and trolling hard: Anonymous trolls ISIS with #Daeshbags hashtag

And watch, a bunch of people will say "noooo! don't troll poor little ISIS! You're just as bad as they are for sending them messages of support that turn out to be images of gay porn! You are just as bad as they are!"


See, that's the thing. You are already planning your next target. Where will it stop?
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Old 05-13-2016, 08:43 AM
 
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"Authentic super villains evil laugh" . Nope, I don't buy this story, it seems more and more ridiculous the more he posts.
This is either a very immature kid or childhood abuse has left him seriously mentally impaired into adulthood. Professional help is indeed needed,
Not gloating on a public forum like a 10 year old.
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Old 05-13-2016, 08:45 AM
 
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Here is my next target I think I'll join in the other who are having a blast finding and trolling hard: Anonymous trolls ISIS with #Daeshbags hashtag

And watch, a bunch of people will say "noooo! don't troll poor little ISIS! You're just as bad as they are for sending them messages of support that turn out to be images of gay porn! You are just as bad as they are!"
Dude, seriously? You're not really going to use Anonymous as your guide, are you?

Yes they make serious sounding videos set to scary music, but at the end of they day they are still just internet trolls. Keep in mind also that ISIS lives in the real world instead of the fuking internet (yes, there actually is a difference), and that IP addresses work both ways.

Anonymous found that out the hard way once when they thought it would be fun to take on a Mexican Drug Cartel...

Member of Anonymous released by violent Mexican drug cartel after viral video threat* - NY Daily News

https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs...SzmM_blog.html

If you really want to take on ISIS step out from behind your keyboard, grow a pair and join the military.

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