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Old 06-15-2010, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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Originally Posted by betamanlet View Post
I think I've touched a nerve here, I have a feeling some of the people in our little discussion have probably done that, and don't like me saying my views on how revolting that behavior is.

I don't think it is revolting, we cannot help who we are attracted to.

Feel free to sleep with as many married men as you want dude.

 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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Yes you do. Your original post posited that women in general have low morals and sleep with married men.



You stubbornly ignore the fact that you could simply not know that your male friends are cheating in the same numbers.

Here are some other insulting things you've said:









Such grandiose talk. "Lots of women I grew up with" and "absolutely every family I know" ... how many people are we talking about? Please provide a number. The women you grew up with, about whom you know so much--how many are there? Five? Twenty? Fifty? How many families? The way you talk, you sound like you're speaking about dozens and dozens of women; my high school class was something like 800 kids.

How many?

I suggest you re-read what I wrote. I was talking about the females I know, not ALL women. It's not my fault you didn't actually read what I wrote.

Now what could I have done to set off such a nerve that you misread what I wrote?
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:13 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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So women didn't have rights for a really long time, i guess evertyone should have accepted it and just though "this is the way it's always been"..

Gay's haven't been able to marry for ever, so since that's the way it has always been

Whoa, now you're confusing me. You accuse me of hating women, then accuse me of self loathing?


Can you try to at least be consistent?
WHAT tangent have you gone off on?? I never said anything about gays marrying or women's rights. Like I said....lay off the duster cans.

You are self-loathing. You hate who you are and you blame women for it.

You need some counseling... OR go back under the bridge with the other trolls.
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:14 PM
 
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So let's get this straight, it's worse to "whine" on a message board about crappy values in society than it is to have sex with a married person simply because sex with married people has been going on for a long time??



I think I've touched a nerve here, I have a feeling some of the people in our little discussion have probably done that, and don't like me saying my views on how revolting that behavior is.
You weren't passing judgement on singles pursuing married people, you were passing judgement on all WOMEN based on the women you a) know or b) heard about.

I don't know where you got your law degree, but you obviously didn't take statistics. Your little social universe does not make for a representative sample of a gender as a whole. Haven't you figured that out yet?

Instead, I would question who you hang out with (or are exposed to), because that says a lot more about YOU than anything else.
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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Grow up.

And also, you're basically trying now to impute homosexuality as a bad thing, since you're obviously trying to insult me. Is imputing homosexuality as a bad thing a violation of the TOS besides the personal attacks being made here?

I don't care one bit if you are gay, openly or not. I have gay members in my family, I do not love them more or love them less for that, i love them for who they are.

I did not insult you once! You are the one that said you slept with married men, not me, Please refer to your other posting and you can read your own words.

I have said more than once I was glad for you, so please tell me how that was a personal attack?
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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I don't think it is revolting, we cannot help who we are attracted to.

Feel free to sleep with as many married men as you want dude.
That's nice that you lack morals. Good for you.

We cannot help who we are attracted to, hence we should have no self control or restraint, and damn all who might get impacted, like family members becaues I should be able to do whatever the heck I want!

Sorry for wasting my time here, i didn't realize I was amongst children. No adult could have mentalities like this.
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:16 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I am happily married and not sleeping with any one other than my wife.

i just don't care if you sleep with married men or not. Not going to pass my morals on to you.
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:18 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I suggest you re-read what I wrote. I was talking about the females I know, not ALL women. It's not my fault you didn't actually read what I wrote.
I did read what you wrote. Do you not remember it? Here's your opening salvo:

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How common is this, or some equivalent lack of morals in men? I know lots of women that i grew up with, same high school, that have at some point, been involved with married guys. I know more women who have done this than have not. It can't be some giant coincidence, right? That I just happen to know a lot of females lacking morals? The lastest one is my best friend's sister... is this just something you're going to have to accept with someone these days, that they've done some horrible things?
You know more women who sleep with married men than women who haven't. "That can't be some giant coincidence, right?" That's what you said, which you said once or twice again later in the thread.

You tell me what that is supposed to mean, if not how I am interpreting it. All your other posts seem to say that women are a bunch of immoral, drama-loving skanks, so please enlighten me.
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:25 PM
 
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From where I'm sitting, it's the majority of women I grew up with who have done something like this at least once.
How do you know the sexual habits of the females you grew up with? Are you like best girl friends after all these years. Because I dont have a clue if my old high school friends have had an affair, or charged for sex, practiced bestiality, or are porn addicts.
 
Old 06-15-2010, 12:28 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Sorry for wasting my time here, i didn't realize I was amongst children. No adult could have mentalities like this.
See ya...bye-bye! Next time, put on your big boy beta pants before you come and play in the sandbox!
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