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Old 11-13-2010, 12:39 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Since I had so many bad dating experiences I decided to live life again as a 14 year old and not care about woman. So I go to work, watch sports, watch tv, spend time with family, and eat my favorite foods. When I'm on facebook or around family or friends i never say anything about woman and then the questions start

What else do you do besides eat and watch tv?

Why are you not married?

Why don't you ever talk about the opposite sex?



Here is my question, why is it so weird for a 35 year man to be content with living his life without being in a relationship? If watching sports, tv, and going to work makes me happy then why is that so odd?


That doesn't mean I'm not opn the lookout for Ms. right it just means I now know that there are more things in life that can make you happy besides being with that special someone.

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Old 11-13-2010, 12:46 PM
 
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Dear Lord, let there be peace on earth and TVSG get laid & soon! Back away from the computer, I know there are several ball games on right now.

P.S. What is criticie?
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Old 11-13-2010, 12:55 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Dear Lord, let there be peace on earth and TVSG get laid & soon! Back away from the computer, I know there are several ball games on right now.

P.S. What is criticie?
I mean criticize. Why can't a guy live by this philosophy below?

"women, can't live with them, the end"
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Old 11-13-2010, 12:58 PM
 
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If you don't want to date or find someone, then don't. People always find something to criticize. I find that unhappy people especially love to find something to pick at. If you are truly happy, then don't worry about it. Although, it comes across that you are kind of bitter and disillusioned with women. Maybe you need a break before dating again.
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:03 PM
 
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I mean criticize. Why can't a guy live by this philosophy below?

"women, can't live with them, the end"
No reason why a guy could not. If you are content, or if nothing else resigned, than it is not without precedence. As for other people and their curiosity (criticism implies more than I would grant it) about your choice, simply learn to dissemble. You need not convert them to your thinking about it.
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:07 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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If you don't want to date or find someone, then don't. People always find something to criticize. I find that unhappy people especially love to find something to pick at. If you are truly happy, then don't worry about it. Although, it comes across that you are kind of bitter and disillusioned with women. Maybe you need a break before dating again.

I am open to bi-weeklyship that can grow after after 6 months. But even that's hard to find
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:08 PM
 
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I am open to bi-weeklyship that can grow after after 6 months. But even that's hard to find
So.. in other words you are not resigned or content. Thats why other peoples questions bug you.
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:12 PM
 
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A bi-what?

Anyway, Bro I hear you. People will do this sort of thing your whole life.

When you get married...."When you guys having kids?"

"When you buying a house....so on and so on.

Don't worry about it.
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:13 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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So.. in other words you are not resigned or content. Thats why other peoples questions bug you.
I guess they bug me because I have nothing to tak about and know that I'm quietly looking but not successful yet. So the fact that I can't be excited about something else besides having sex with a woman is annoying
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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So.. in other words you are not resigned or content. Thats why other peoples questions bug you.
It's a classic "the lady doth protest too much" situation.
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