Would you get together with your spouses family... if you hated them?

[happi28]

Sorry love never meant to **** you off with Monster in law issues..lol...Well maybe now that I am moving 120 minutes away maybe I will hear less of her...Even her freaking name gets me sick to my stomach....It's really sad that this is theway that it is...I always wanted to have a big family and many beautiful get togethers....I will show make it a point to my kids to be close to each-other and be there for one another...Holidays will be different but better different then miserable......QUIET is good.....Now she will find something else to blameme for...She will say now that I took her son miles away...Like the bible says you leave your mother and cling to your wife..hehehe....

[fuzzy2007]

I've just been separated because my ex-husband can't stand my family. But all the issues only started happening after he kicked my out of the marital home with my 3 young children. He said my family was nosy, opinionated and arrogant.

When he kicked me out, for a long time I didn't receive a phone call or an inquiry from him about how we here and how I was coping. He kicked me out when for the first time in my life I didn't have a job, I was in a new country and all because I had a quick siggy in the back yard with my sister.

My sister, the one he said was bad and arrogant and not nice, was the one who took me in, paid all my expenses and let me use all her things while I was rebuilding my life. 9 years, i have had to try to keep the peace between my family and spouse, to the point where I limited my interaction with my extended family for fear he would get angry at me again about my family's attitude.

I think family is important. Blood is still thicker than water.

Especially to all the women out there, your extended family is important to support you. I think spouses can change and will change as you grow older together and they could leave you, but your family will always be there no matter what because they are blood.