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I stopped reading when you said he told you it was your responsibility to find him someone to have sex with. Are you serious? Tell me your joking when you say you're here looking for advice on what to do. <shaking my head> sigh.
Listen, you're young and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you just don't know any better but certainly at SOME point in your life you learned that if a man will cheat with you on his g/f he will most certainly do it to you and secondly, he's a douche bag! Acckk!!!
Dump him and tell him to find his own sex partner. Seriously, stop being insecure, lacking self esteem, etc.. this man will not bring anything to your life in a positive manner. He will cheat on you and when he's done using you for his own little deviant plans, he will move on and find another 20-somthing year old girl.
Someone who cares about you doesn't bring his GF around. Nor does he expect you to procure sex partners for him. Promise. This is not normal or acceptable behavior and this guy has ISSUES. Problems you can't fix or change. He won't change. What are you going to do when you are pregnant and he wants you to find someone for him to have sex with? Will that be OK with you?
Give him the boot. Save yourself a lot of heartache.
Seriously, I hope threads like this one and a few others over the past few days do not represent women in their early 20s across the board. Sounds harsh, but come on, use some common sense. Failing that, listen to Bounce:
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Originally Posted by bouncethelight
He had a girlfriend while he was dating you.
He wants sex and you want to stay a virgin.
He wants you to find him someone else to have sex with, since you won't do it?
And he's telling other people he's currently single?
Work what out? Frankly it doesn't sound like you have a real relationship with him - it sounds like he's out for a good time with lots of girls, and you want a monogamous committed non-sexual relationship.
Seriously, I hope threads like this one and a few others over the past few days do not represent women in their early 20s across the board. Sounds harsh, but come on, use some common sense. Failing that, listen to Bounce:
Now go. Delude yourself no more.
Sheesh!
Cut her a break. We were all young and naive once.
lemongrass. Read this information you put out in it's entirety and answer your own question.
I'm surprised you didn't open a can of whip *ss when he brought some chick to you door as his girlfriend which you didn't know he had. He's a liar and a deceitful person and he's selfishly thinks of no one except for himself.
Should he get a second chance - you should have been 100% done with him with that visit.
He's a liar, cheater, selfish, disrespectful person...................get rid of him. If he did this to his girlfriend (s) and you allow him in your life, he will do it to you too. No phone calls, visits, and you should call the police if he steps foot on your door again for trespassing.
Love yourself and others will have no choice but to do so also. I think you deserve better, I hope you do too.
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