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Cut her a break. We were all young and naive once.
Way back when I was young there was no internet. Many of us fumbled around in our naivety and, because of our lack of experience and lack of resources, made mistakes which cost us greatly down the line. Most of us learned via the school of hard knocks.
In this day and age, so much information and advice is so readily available. I can only begin to imagine how different my path might have been if cyberspace was in my world way back when. But it wasn't and I can't but I learned and continue to learn. Cheers!
For one thing, he's too old for you. He wants to have sex with multiple people and you're still a virgin. He is shady and a player. Once he introduced his gf to you, you should have stopped talking to him right there.
My suggestion, stop talking to him. End the relationship and find someone that is in your age range and who is single. Don't listen to his bs because he's going to go heavy on it so he won't lose you. Be strong and move on before you're sorry that you gave up your virginity for a player. He'll become your first and then take off.
Way back when I was young there was no internet. Many of us fumbled around in our naivety and, because of our lack of experience and lack of resources, made mistakes which cost us greatly down the line. Most of us learned via the school of hard knocks.
In this day and age, so much information and advice is so readily available. I can only begin to imagine how different my path might have been if cyberspace was in my world way back when. But it wasn't and I can't but I learned and continue to learn. Cheers!
Cheers right back 'atcha!
You forgot the element of maturation that includes not even thinking to look somewhere for information; trusting your peers over trusted sources, etc.
This man is using you.He wants the sex, and he'll probably play nice untill he gets it..After that you'll be one of many..If you won't settle for that you'd best drop this loser and keep yourself available for the love you can get from a monogamous man who will love you and cherish you the way you desire and deserve.
Nothing more to say to the OP that hasn't been said. He is a creep in every way, without conscience or stability. He does things to you that make you think 'he is the one.' You can get that same feeling from a kindred spirit, not this joke. Wait for the right one. Keep your standards high. Don't compromise. No man has such an insatiable drive that they won't wait for the right one. He's trying each woman out, seeing if there's a fit. Let him fit with someone else. You have different goals, values, and directions. You are upwardly mobile. He isn't.
You guys don't have a relationship, my dear... he's using you for fun whenever he wants to and taking advantage of the fact that you're basically letting him get away with it.
If you were to "be his girlfriend," I can promise you: if he's willing to see someone else while seeing you - and not only not tell you, but also bring her to meet you - he will do the exact same thing to you.
You guys don't have a relationship, my dear... he's using you for fun whenever he wants to and taking advantage of the fact that you're basically letting him get away with it.
If you were to "be his girlfriend," I can promise you: if he's willing to see someone else while seeing you - and not only not tell you, but also bring her to meet you - he will do the exact same thing to you.
You dont treat people you care about the way he treated you. Nothing can change that and the only thing he is changing is his tactics. Everyone deserves to be treated with simple kindness and respect, doesnt matter if its the kid behind the counter at a convienience store or a potential mate. He gave you neither. Life brings enough pain without adding in a using game player, do yourself a favor and leave him to his own devices.
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Many of us fumbled around in our naivety and, because of our lack of experience and lack of resources, made mistakes which cost us greatly down the line. Most of us learned via the school of hard knocks. 
