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Old 03-11-2012, 09:56 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Of course.

It's so much easier to say, society doesn't find men of a certain race attractive or society doesn't find women of a certain skin color attractive than to say I'm not attractive.
As I mentioned in the earlier post, I would consider going back home if I found I was having trouble finding a mate in a foreign country. Surely India has a couple of hundred thousand women who would jump at hooking up with this guy.
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Old 03-11-2012, 09:59 AM
 
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I think if I had trouble dating within a country I would consider moving back to my home country to find someone with similar values, culture and tastes.

Ever thought about moving back home ? If not, it's totally you.
I am an American citizen, but thank you for the free advice.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:00 AM
 
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He's rich and famous because he's ridiculously good looking.

Like I said, if you're attractive you're attractive. If you're not, you're not.
Yeah right, as if most women only date men who are as ridiculously good looking as Hrithik Roshan, going by the same logic every other man who walks down the street should be a Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise etc etc.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:02 AM
 
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Of course.

It's so much easier to say, society doesn't find men of a certain race attractive or society doesn't find women of a certain skin color attractive than to say I'm not attractive.

That's not to say racism or colorism don't exist, but when people have ascribed to it their entire misfortune in the dating world my red flags go up.

And I say this as a non-light skinned black female.
You still have a huge pool of men that would like you for what you are unlike me. So you wouldn't understand where I am coming from and neither would the other realestate agent offering me unwarranted and unnecessary advise out here.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:03 AM
 
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As I mentioned in the earlier post, I would consider going back home if I found I was having trouble finding a mate in a foreign country. Surely India has a couple of hundred thousand women who would jump at hooking up with this guy.
So when you mention going back home, you are saying even someone who has an American citizenship should give it up and go back to his ancestral land. Going by the same logic, I am sure your ancestors would also have come from some other part of the world, would you consider moving back there??

Or are you one of those "conservatives" that thinks America is a land for only White, Christian countries?
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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No it usually doesn't go that far, women look at me and realize I belong to a race that they hate and then give me the stink eye, so attitude/personality and all that don't even come into the picture.
I think you should move. As I have mentioned in previous threads, all the south asian guys I know with good personalities have no problems dating whoever. Obviously quiet reserved guys have a slightly harder time, but that true no matter what your ethnic group is.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Yeah right, as if most women only date men who are as ridiculously good looking as Hrithik Roshan, going by the same logic every other man who walks down the street should be a Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise etc etc.
You don't have to be even half as good looking as Hrithik Roshan to get women attracted to you. Of course, you'd also have to have a nice personality and a good attitude towards women, something I think that's hard for you to muster.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:33 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Or are you one of those "conservatives" that thinks America is a land for only White, Christian countries?
I can see where you might have trouble attracting a local American girl with this attitude. I assumed since you referred to yourself as Indian you might actually be from India.

Now if you had referred to yourself as American my advice might have been different.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Greenpapayas, do you date and attempt to meet Indian women?
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Old 03-11-2012, 11:05 AM
 
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Well I am a 26 year old virgin myself, so hey we aren't too different on one thing. Besides the reason I remained a virgin is because most women I found in my life usually were very trashy, prejudiced, close minded, etc etc and I didn't want to have anything with them.
All of them are this way??

Or maybe your personality might have something to do with it?
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