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From anyone I've ever heard comment on it she didn't skate at all - her skank appeal actually rose. I hold the married person THE most responsible in making their marriage sacred ground and if they don't why should anyone else.
It's kind of tricky when a woman "catches" a man on the sole basis of her beauty. If that's all he's into, trust and believe those looks will fade, the freshness will go. I don't care what the BH plastic surgeons and "youthologists" have to say about it. An aging woman who goes into overdrive, trying to keep it young is fooling no one, really. This is especially true of women who have beauty, but no real character to accompany it.
Nothing wrong with a woman working to look "well preserved" within reason, though.
Cheated on her with me, by the way. I was his mistress for over a year until he finally divorced her and married me. He always tells me I'm the love of his life, which is how I feel about him also.
And for those who may say "it will never work out-once a cheater, always a cheater", I'm here to just say that THAT typical response isn't always true. Married 6 blissful years and counting.
Just wanted to let you guys know that a cheater isn't always unfaithful.
Anyone who claims "once a cheater, always a cheater" is either bitter about the opposite sex or else they've been cheated on. Or they simply don't like cheating and dishonesty.
I never have believed it. People can and do change.
This is one huge sweeping generalization your making and sounds very cold and callous to people who've been cheated on.
And yes people do change but the question is how often does that happen.
Would you higher a convicted sex offender to work at a grade school or after school program under the guise of "oh they may change?"
So many of you all are right on point that I can't even rep you all anymore!!! She is obviously facing some insecurity and it's in the back of her head that he might cheat again...perhaps he is already cheating.
this is because marriage does not necessarily always mean that the person you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with is, or even should, be the person you are the most compatible with. Notice that I said the most compatible; meaning that there is a very strong chance that there are many people of the opposite sex in this world that would-should you find a way to stumble upon them- be very compatible with you. it is impossible to find and settle down with THE MOST COMPATIBLE person in this vast world of ours because the chances of meeting said person are very very slim. what if you are living in america but this "most compatible" person you seek is happily residing in China and doesn't even know the name of the town you happen to live in. Now should lady luck find you favorable enough to settle on your lap and you find yourself on a plane to china and end up standing in line behind your MOST COMPATIBLE PERSON IN THE WORLD and he/she happens to be available and ready- great. it's the stuff that happily ever afters are made of. it's also stuff dreams are made of
most of us are lucky enough to find just one of these people who happens to be more compatible with us than others we have encountered during everyday life. we then marry and settle down with this said person. when we marry them, the deal isn't that we will stay with our spouse until a more compatible match comes along- the deal is that we have chosen to stay with our spouse, no matter what,with the full knowledge of that our most compatible person in the world is probably out there somewhere leading his/her own life and will stay put in his/her own life.
once we close our minds to the possibility of bigger/better/brighter someone else- our current spouses, the person we chose with all our heart to give our life to- the person who has chosen to share his/her life with us, becomes our THEMOSTCOMPATIBLEPERSONINTHEWORLD.
cheaters are people who go into marriages believing that they are invested in their current spouse until and unless something bigger/brighter/better comes along. it's fun and only fair that these individuals stay away from the walk down the aisle and focus instead on spending their life swapping partners every couple of months, trying perpetually to find their MOSTCOMPATIBLEPERSON.
Exactly, because if it weren't on the back of her mind, she wouldn't have created a thread about it in the first place.
She wanted to get it in now, because next year it's time for the Seven Year Itch.
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It's kind of tricky when a woman "catches" a man on the sole basis of her beauty. If that's all he's into, trust and believe those looks will fade, the freshness will go. I don't care what the BH plastic surgeons and "youthologists" have to say about it. An aging woman who goes into overdrive, trying to keep it young is fooling no one, really. This is especially true of women who have beauty, but no real character to accompany it.
Nothing wrong with a woman working to look "well preserved" within reason, though.
