Why does it always or usually a guy's social skills, conversation skills, attitude, mentality, way of thinking (college, different)

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by stan4

Yes. But don't blame the women for that. They want relationships. They are looking for personality characteristics - that is what initially attracts them. Guys want to get laid and go for the pretties.

Why is that our fault?

I don't go for the pretties. But then I get called insecure, having low self-esteem, and supposedly unable to land a hot one.

[*Sweetkisses*]

Originally Posted by WakaFlocka

I don't go for the pretties. But then I get called insecure, having low self-esteem, and supposedly unable to land a hot one.

But why do you have to make a thread about it? Just do you and be done with it.

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by *Sweetkisses*

But why do you have to make a thread about it? Just do you and be done with it.

Because I feel other blokes can relate to me.

[Haley James]

Originally Posted by Ihatespoiledbrattypeople

yeah it's like men have to be the whole, complete package in order to be "boyfriend material", meanwhile women, they only need half the package

A woman only needs to be half the package to be "girlfriend" material in your eyes? Consider your standards.

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by Haley James

A woman only needs to be half the package to be "girlfriend" material in your eyes? Consider your standards.

Seriously. A woman should have to meet just as many requirements as a man.

[ShellNic]

So you're irritated that you (some men) have no standards other than looking for a hot woman and because that's difficult for you, you assume it's easier for women because they have more than one guideline other than hotness? So you, shallow, want women to go for guys solely on their looks? OK, dude, you got it? Do you measure up?

And what if the girl isn't hot? How does she get a date then? If she's ugly, she's doomed but somehow, in your warped little world, she's got it easy. Wow, since I can't change your mind, I really hope any girl that you actually go for, bases her response just on your looks. Hope it's favorable...if it isn't, maybe you should try all those other criteria women use to get a man.

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by WakaFlocka

Seriously. A woman should have to meet just as many requirements as a man.

Most men do have a list of requirements for women to meet. Seriously. And that's the way is should be.

[WakaFlocka]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

Most men do have a list of requirements for women to meet. Seriously. And that's the way is should be.

As they should. I know I do.

[Ihatespoiledbrattypeople]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

Most men do have a list of requirements for women to meet. Seriously. And that's the way is should be.

yeah but nowhere near as long as the list of requirements women have for men

[Slanderous]

Originally Posted by Ihatespoiledbrattypeople

yeah but nowhere near as long as the list of requirements women have for men

Some women have a short list of requirements and some men have long lists. Either way, why worry about it? If a woman has too many requirements, forget about her.