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Who cares what she does for a living? Crap, man. If you like her talk to her, if you don't then let it go. This is real simple stuff here. If she likes you she will make it immediately clear when you start talking to her. Obviously you like her or you wouldn't be so hung up on all this. Either accept the fact that she works at Subway or let that deter you and try to find someone else.
I can't believe some of you people on here sometimes, I have a hard time figuring out how you manage to get dressed and fed each morning without the fire department getting involved at some point to rescue you from a tree.
Many of you guys are showing some sort of class envy, since everyone that has made a remark about me mentioning that I wouldn't date her for not being professional, didn't bother to ask me why. They simply assumed away thinking I'm 'uppity' or think I'm above the rest.
What if I was to tell you that the impression people get of me is the complete opposite?
Did it ever occurred to anyone here that there's a reason for why I'm not willing to date someone with no college degree, a reason that has nothing to do with how good she would be?
Did it ever occurred to anyone that I may be the son of a professional father and a non-college-degree mother, and witnessed how my 'professional father' would corner my mom on that account, going as far as calling her stupid and her having to shut up?
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Did it ever occur to you that posting the way you did in your OP, without any of this "explanation" (if it's for real), would garner tons of angry responses and would get you lots of attention?
Oh yeah, that's right, you did.
Some people are...I don't know...very, very lonely.
See the red text above...you don't STARE at her? If the place is packed and you're the first OR last person served, she ONLY sighs when she waits on you. Again...you're not staring at her!?
This is such a good point. Someone who stares every time, over a long period of time but never either a) makes a legitimate move or b) stops doing it, would definitely seem like a creeper. I'd be carrying around pepper spray. I'd be very, very nervous if a customer (at any job) did this. I'd be a little scared, probably.
As for what you describe later, OP (hmmm, story keeps changing?) you're not actually "staring," though...you're hiding behind menus and casting furtive glances and waiting to see if she aspirates. Multiple times. Over a long period of time.
Why don't you DEMAND to know WHY she is sighing? Do not leave the "restaurant" until you find out - in fact, refuse to move along in the line. You have your rights!
And on another note, do you agree with your father that your mother is stupid? If not, I would think you could see that what a person does for a living has little relationship to their true character . . .
I would have to go out of my way to visit another Subway every time I have the urge to eat one of their sandwiches. That's dumb when there's one so close to my office.
I thought it was probably something women would understand and rather than talking about this to someone that knows me, I thought since here we're all supposedly anonymous, I would get a more accurate possible answer.
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