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If getting messages by older men online taught me anything, a lot of men think they age into fine wine when the truth is they aged into vinegar. Like fine wine, men who age well are out there, but are the exception, not the norm. Everybody ages and most people look better when they were younger. And I would say there are some women who age from milk to fine cheese as well, but again, not the norm.
I think it depends. Whether someone takes care of themselves becomes apparent at age 35, my age.
There are men and women that either make a concerted effort to look good or have let themselves go.
I'm chatting with a very cute lady in her early twenties as we speak. I think for many young ladies, they are attracted to older men. I do exercise routinely however and take care of myself.
I'm don't find a number of ladies my age attractive as they've let themselves go.
I think it depends. Whether someone takes care of themselves becomes apparent at age 35, my age.
There are men and women that either make a concerted effort to look good or have let themselves go.
I'm chatting with a very cute lady in her early twenties as we speak. I think for many young ladies, they are attracted to older men. I do exercise routinely however and take care of myself.
I'm don't find a number of ladies my age attractive as they've let themselves go.
It's good that you take care of yourself and it does help. My boyfriend is almost 10 years older, but he's lead a good clean life. He's a bit chubby though, but he knows that he's got some middle aged spread, but that's minor. But most men don't seem to take care of themselves like you do. Like the women you see, the men I saw let themselves go or just didn't age well (genetics catches up with them).
It seems like most guys who use online dating will never get a date, even if they message 1000 different girls. If you are not very attractive and have a good paying job, most women wouldn't even bother with you. It seems like a waste of time and money for most guys since women can be extremely selective.
Backpage.com is the way to go. Why is this thread so long?
Backpage.com is the way to go. Why is this thread so long?
Because prostitution is illegal, those men not looking for relationships but looking to get laid have to go through the whole song and dance routine to get sex.
Because prostitution is illegal, those men not looking for relationships but looking to get laid have to go through the whole song and dance routine to get sex.
Thank goodness people with this attitude broadcast it like a neo sign! Then women don't have to throw up in their mouths in person.
Backpage.com is the way to go. Why is this thread so long?
Not long ago I had the CEO of a company I work for get busted for visiting a prostitute.
The board fired him, his name and mugshot were all over the news, and his life was basically ruined.
I have no moral objection to prostitution but the consequences are clear. I am guessing that if you advocate prostitution as a solution to dating problems, you must not be a person with very much to lose.
I'm not against online dating but for men it is a challenge as most men don't get a inbox full of messages. Its a numbers game and eventually your time will come. Maybe I'm wrong, but why not go all the way and sign up for a paid service like match or eharmony, at least you know people there take it more seriously.
Idk, anyone want to chime in on paid vs non-paid sites?
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