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If you don't have a problem with HIS line of reasoning, you shouldn't have a problem with HERS.
For the record, I'm not supporting HIS or HERS because the same principle is involved.
now watch this...
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Originally Posted by Veyron
It's 2012. Women why is it such a big deal if a man wants to use you just for sex ?.
It's 2012. Men, why is it such a big deal if a woman wants to use you just for money?
She shouldn't have to wait 3 centuries, 2,000,000 phone conversations, 17,000,000 text messages exchanges and 15,000 walks in the parks just to get the $$$..
Instead women like that are labeled as gold-diggers, demons, hell spawns, and bottom feeders just because they're trying to pay their bills and satisfy their desire to have nice things..*sigh*
If so, then goddamn you're lucky. Most men would kill for something like that.
That was the part that made it difficult- Other older woman that I talked to said "so- you did someone a favor"....It might a been a mercy move on my part- I never found her attractive - I was barbaric...it was just sex and sex with someone who is not that hot- is not that hot...The only thing that was good about it was that after not living with my wife for almost four years...at least it got my motor going again..Kind of like buying a starter house.
I always said if you want to break the spell of one woman...it can only be done through another woman...My wife hopes that I get so old that no one will want me...It's mean spirited- she does not want me and does not want anyone else to have me...all this proved is that I am capable of having a sex life again and maybe someone new...I did like the ego boost from the fling chick - when she said "I never thought that you would be that good" I was always a good lover....for the ordinary reason is that I really really adore the female form.
One thing I know is that I want an intelligent woman...I find that very attractive ...this fling...well...she is a corporate type...who works for the banks as an investment advisor,,,,,, I don't think she has had an original or independent thought in her life...
I have changed in the last few years- learned more and am wiser .....don't want to waste time being a teacher ......especially with a widow.....besides I never fully trusted woman who achieve widowhood.
Really? You think women don't enjoy sex? You think we only do it, to please men, so we can get something out of them?
Just for the record, if it's the right partner, most of women enjoy sex a lot! It's not a means to an end, it's just a plain old enjoyable activity!
There is nothing sweeter than a good woman that knows how to enjoy herself....I remember watching the old movie "Little Big Man" with Dustin Hoffman ....There was a scene where chief Dan George....and Hoffman's character were talking about a woman....the old chief asked one key question ..."When you mount her does she show enthusiasm?
There is something to be said about making love with a wife or husband of someone you have loved for a long time///// There is a comfort and security...a trust .....something that a one night stand can never provide...sex with a mate is the best....Unless you are a crazy Catholic girl who has been taught that sex is a taboo...and that adulterous sex is a bigger taboo which in their minds is more sexy...the more evil the better,,,,I have seen that and It is simply weird that a religion generates morally deprived sex.
Really? You think women don't enjoy sex? You think we only do it, to please men, so we can get something out of them?
Just for the record, if it's the right partner, most of women enjoy sex a lot! It's not a means to an end, it's just a plain old enjoyable activity!
"the right partner" can be an eternal search, like looking for mr goodbar. "the right partner" all too often ends up looking just like the "wrong partner" u dumped. all too often the way a guy gets to go from "right partner" to "wrong partner" is by trying to set some boundaries on some bad behavior. sex is generally a means to an end that end could have nothing to do with money but an end. but for the woman, the relationship must "go somewhere". most divorces are filed by women not men, most women come out better from the initial divorce, its like quitting your job and getting a large bonus, true, 5 years later life is not so good when the bonus runs out, but at the time, it feels good, "take this job and shove it, " sing it. oh btw thanks for the anonymous rep although, a bit nasty, the GF comment. my GF would probably scratch out your eyes if she saw it.
Last edited by Huckleberry3911948; 06-15-2012 at 08:28 AM..
It's not for you to judge. I'm not sure what's so difficult about that idea. Judge your own life. You have no idea what the rest of us have and are capable of having in our marriages and you certainly have no business considering the sex life of anyone but you. Who the hell do you think you are to speak for millions of people who don't know you and don't want to know you? I'm not sure which comment you're talking about Huck, but I left a comment to speak about your own. Rightly so. Although, I wouldn't be surprised one bit if the woman in your life is as whacked out as you are.
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