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LOL did i strike a nerve with some posters? I dont sit in every night... i'd be bored out of my mind. I play sports 4 nights a week with groups of people. I'm just saying that I'd be equally turned off if a girl did nothing but go out to bar and clubbing and that was the only thing that interested her on the weekend. Just saying
Not really. It was more that you seemed to have missed the point or were being willfully obtuse. All we're saying is that the #1 way to be more interesting to women is to be more interesting unto yourself. As Ovid wrote two thousand or so years ago, "To be loved, you must first be worth loving."
Not really. It was more that you seemed to have missed the point or were being willfully obtuse. All we're saying is that the #1 way to be more interesting to women is to be more interesting unto yourself. As Ovid wrote two thousand or so years ago, "To be loved, you must first be worth loving."
no crap.. but what u guys also seem to not understand is that its a two way street. You guys are making it seem that ur putting women on pedestals. Shouldn't a girl have to be also interesting enough for you to want to date her?
In fact, let me run down the characteristics of a boring-ass guy that no woman of quality would want to be around:
Doesn't get out.
Doesn't exercise.
Doesn't take pride in his appearance.
Doesn't read anything, unless one counts Tom Clancy or Men's Journal.
Doesn't travel or have the slightest interest in traveling.
Doesn't stretch himself intellectually or emotionally.
Doesn't have any hobbies.
Doesn't have curiosity.
Doesn't reach out to friends.
Doesn't engage others.
Doesn't wear anything with personality.
Doesn't want to risk looking like a fool, even when there's a distinct chance of having fun.
Doesn't want to go anywhere where he doesn't know anyone.
Doesn't want to do anything that takes him outside his comfort zone.
Doesn't want to try anything new, whether it's food, entertainment, or activities.
Doesn't want to do anything that interrupts his television watching habits.
And the list goes on. And then they sit around and mewl about why hot women aren't knocking down their doors. Life is a freaking banquet, and some poor bastards are out there starving to death.
no crap.. but what u guys also seem to not understand is that its a two way street. You guys are making it seem that ur putting women on pedestals. Shouldn't a girl have to be also interesting enough for you to want to date her?
Yeah, a woman should have to be interesting enough for you to want to date her... if you're an interesting person. How can you have any worth if you don't do anything or you don't get out or not have any hobbies? For you to have your choice of who you want, you have to be someone who is a real catch. You can't sit at home all day, play x-box and never leave the house and then say "now i'm going to choose which woman I want because they all want me".
Also, it has nothing to do with putting women on a pedestal, it is about living a healthy life! I don't see why so many people are against this, life is so much better when you are out enjoying it. You only get 1 life, why spend it living in a hole? Get out there and see the world and meet new people.
no crap.. but what u guys also seem to not understand is that its a two way street. You guys are making it seem that ur putting women on pedestals. Shouldn't a girl have to be also interesting enough for you to want to date her?
So? Work on yourself and don't date uninteresting women. But if you take care of yourself, the interesting woman issue will take care of yourself. Anything else is just complaining--which is also boring.
no crap.. but what u guys also seem to not understand is that its a two way street. You guys are making it seem that ur putting women on pedestals. Shouldn't a girl have to be also interesting enough for you to want to date her?
Here is what you don't get. Women can choose any guy at any time. MOST guys don't have that luxury. So, we do other things that will attract women.
Hence, become interesting. It's not about putting women on a pedestal. It's about putting yourself in a position to where YOU can do the selecting and stop being selected and rejected.
So? Work on yourself and don't date uninteresting women. But if you take care of yourself, the interesting woman issue will take care of yourself. Anything else is just complaining--which is also boring.
i agree, listen i understand u cant live in a boring life. I wouldnt want to date a boring person. But at the same time I dont need to be reminded you went to Cabo for spring break on facebook 5000 times
i agree, listen i understand u cant live in a boring life. I wouldnt want to date a boring person. But at the same time I dont need to be reminded you went to Cabo for spring break on facebook 5000 times
Here is what you don't get. Women can choose any guy at any time. MOST guys don't have that luxury. So, we do other things that will attract women.
Hence, become interesting. It's not about putting women on a pedestal. It's about putting yourself in a position to where YOU can do the selecting and stop being selected and rejected.
Here is what you don't get. Women can choose any guy at any time. MOST guys don't have that luxury. So, we do other things that will attract women.
Hence, become interesting. It's not about putting women on a pedestal. It's about putting yourself in a position to where YOU can do the selecting and stop being selected and rejected.
i didnt realize u had a female brain
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