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While I feel nobody is "hopelessly" single if they choose to not be...
I will answer the question by saying if you TRULY feel you are and want to be happy in life, you will learn to embrace the positives of what being "hopelessly single" offers and affords you instead of focusing on the things you do not have by being so.
What's so wrong with being single anyways? If a woman thinks I'm ugly, I don't care, I don't place my value on a random woman's opinion because it means nothing.
What's so wrong with being single anyways? If a woman thinks I'm ugly, I don't care, I don't place my value on a random woman's opinion because it means nothing.
Nothing at all mate...... I've been OFFICIALLY single for nearly 2 years...... I'm sure you know I'm not exactly without company and living the dream
But women's opinion ALWAYS count mate as that's what gives us confidence and tells us we are doing something right
Are you black? Are you over 300 lbs and 6'5? If neither are true, than your case ain't comparable to mine so your argument holds no water.
You can always lose weight!
But I do caution you, if you lose weight and think that will automatically make you a lady killer, you might be sadly mistaken. That's what happened to me after I lost weight. Because there were a ton of other reasons I was turning girls off. I think you might be doing things to turn girls off and you might not even know it.
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Originally Posted by Runninglikethieves
You can always lose weight!
But I do caution you, if you lose weight and think that will automatically make you a lady killer, you might be sadly mistaken. That's what happened to me after I lost weight. Because there were a ton of other reasons I was turning girls off. I think you might be doing things to turn girls off and you might not even know it.
I'm not stupid. I've actually gone from 415 to 330 over the last 18 months. While it has fixed my confidence to a degree I'm still not able to attract decent women. Yeah I get attention, but am I am still unable to get from girls I'd like to date.
Are you black? Are you over 300 lbs and 6'5? If neither are true, than your case ain't comparable to mine so your argument holds no water.
Are you looking at those things as negatives? Stop it! All he was saying (I think) is that 2 people could be in the same physical category, and supposedly should have the same results, but they don't, due to the other things they have going for them that make them attractive.
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Originally Posted by The Dissenter
I'm not stupid. I've actually gone from 415 to 330 over the last 18 months. While it has fixed my confidence to a degree I'm still not able to attract decent women. Yeah I get attention, but am I am still unable to get from girls I'd like to date.
Congratulations! That's a big deal. Work on your confidence, if you think you're a pretty good catch, you have a much better chance of influencing how others see you.
I'm not stupid. I've actually gone from 415 to 330 over the last 18 months. While it has fixed my confidence to a degree I'm still not able to attract decent women. Yeah I get attention, but am I am still unable to get from girls I'd like to date.
Congratulations mate that's great news about the weight loss
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Originally Posted by RbccL
Are you looking at those things as negatives? Stop it! All he was saying (I think) is that 2 people could be in the same physical category, and supposedly should have the same results, but they don't, due to the other things they have going for them that make them attractive.
Congratulations! That's a big deal. Work on your confidence, if you think you're a pretty good catch, you have a much better chance of influencing how others see you.
I agree my love confidence really does shine through and people's perception of you will be favourable
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