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Having self confidence, being educated, having a good personality, and dressing nicely go a long ways. I think most women and men will overlook natural beauty if you have these traits.
Having self confidence, being educated, having a good personality, and dressing nicely go a long ways. I think most women and men will overlook natural beauty if you have these traits.
I wish you could walk a day in my shoes to see how wrong you are.
I wish you could walk a day in my shoes to see how wrong you are.
I guess it depends on the individual. I'd much rather be with a "meh" looking person with a great personality and intelligence than a 10/10 who can't even boil pasta.
But if you look like Steve Buscemi, I guess you are screwed no matter what.
I guess it depends on the individual. I'd much rather be with a "meh" looking person with a great personality and intelligence than a 10/10 who can't even boil pasta.
But if you look like Steve Buscemi, I guess you are screwed no matter what.
I think Steve just needs new teeth and he would look fine (not FINE, but fine). Some people do find him attractive just the way he is though.
I guess it depends on the individual. I'd much rather be with a "meh" looking person with a great personality and intelligence than a 10/10 who can't even boil pasta.
But if you look like Steve Buscemi, I guess you are screwed no matter what.
Are you a woman or a man?
Most men don't seem to think like this. If they did I would have a date every night of the week. A lot of them seem to prefer that 10 that they can show off to their friends, or at least an 8.
Most men don't seem to think like this. If they did I would have a date every night of the week. A lot of them seem to prefer that 10 that they can show off to their friends, or at least an 8.
I'm a guy. People seem to date other people similar to themselves. That's why "people of Walmart" always date/marry other "people of Walmart".
But yes, guys seem to prefer looks over anything, while women like personality and other non-physical traits. Still, even women won't date someone hideous.
On another note, a lot of people who say they are "ugly" actually aren't. They just need a haircut, new outfit, some weight loss, some braces/teeth whitening. Oh, and clothes that fit (no mom/dad jeans).
I'm a guy. People seem to date other people similar to themselves. That's why "people of Walmart" always date/marry other "people of Walmart".
But yes, guys seem to prefer looks over anything, while women like personality and other non-physical traits. Still, even women won't date someone hideous.
On another note, a lot of people who say they are "ugly" actually aren't. They just need a haircut, new outfit, some weight loss, some braces/teeth whitening. Oh, and clothes that fit (no mom/dad jeans).
So now I'm just imagining that I'm unattractive, I've heard it all now.
First off- if you are in somewhat decent shape, I doubt you are that "ugly". But say you are (ugly is a harsh word), there are still women out there that feel the same way.
So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.
Did people (the ladies) tell you this? (Bold)
I mean, post a picture on your profile.
You should online date. Let them know who you are on the inside.
Walk up to 100 random women that you find attractive and say this:
"Hi, I'm Tony, want to go out on a date?"
If you do this, I guarantee you that at least 1 will say yes. I bet 5-10 say yes, actually.
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