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Old 08-01-2012, 06:06 PM
 
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These guys were telling me they liked me, that they wanted a LTR with me, that they cared for me. Then, they slept with me once or twice and left.

Twice I was involved in a situation where me and the other party understood exactly what was going on. The rest of them were all liars who strung me along, and I fell for it like an idiot.
Then you got used in those situations, that's different. As for the situation where you understood what was going on, that makes up a lot of the situations were women say they "were used". That's what I have a problem with....

 
Old 08-01-2012, 06:06 PM
 
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it doesn't matter. having a number is silly. if i met what i thought was the right person i'd be willingly to marry them in less than 90 days. lol
 
Old 08-01-2012, 06:33 PM
 
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Then you got used in those situations, that's different. As for the situation where you understood what was going on, that makes up a lot of the situations were women say they "were used". That's what I have a problem with....
I agree. In the two situations where I definitely knew what was going on, I absolutely wasn't used. In the other ones, I put my trust into people far too easily and got used.

I learned my lessons, however.
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:18 PM
 
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And ladies, let's be honest.

The guys that are willing to wait 90 days with NO ACTION chances are, aren't the guys you actually find attractive
Women seldom wait more than four hours for the ones they find very attractive. Deep down, they know that it will never amount to anything anyway. However, it does make it easier to hold out 90 days for the other guys.
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:23 PM
 
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The only guys who wait for 90 days are losers and players.
Players? Well, I suppose the players who are already getting regular sex from 5 to 15 other women! It is easy to wait then.
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:25 PM
 
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the morning after pill is not birth control.
Nonsense!
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:28 PM
 
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I think this rule is for simpleminded people who aren't able to trust their own instincts or judge character
Not completely true. Any guy who will wait that long will likely also be the type to fork over the contents of his wallet without complaining either. Lust will only take a woman so far!
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:31 PM
 
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Now, this is a strange concept...can't people just meet, and be friends before going to bed? Wow.
Sure they can but her girlfriends will never be impressed with him!
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:40 PM
 
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Well, to be perfectly honest, if a guy acts like he wants to be friends first, than he finds himself in the dreaded friendzone, 9 out of 10 times.
Very true. She doesn't like to be pressured but a lack of pressure from most men (mainly the 80% who women consider to be below average) is not considered good either. Men can't win or they "win" almost immediately. Very few are in the middle.
 
Old 08-01-2012, 10:42 PM
 
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You can do whatever the hell you want as a woman. I just find women who were whores In their past(mostly their primes)but Try to switch it up later and be the "good girl" to be frauds. And most of the time it's not because they "changed" it's because that clock is ticking and they need a husband/provider/father figure now. The guys who wait for women who dozens of other guys have slept with easily are LOSERS.

That's why men who stay single are big winners.
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