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Old 12-23-2012, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Baltimore
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I have a do-not-date policy about guys who were born into money... It is not about money, guys.
I agree. That's why there are so many women with men who do not have a dollar to their name. Obviosly, it was not the money they fell in love with or attracted them to their current partner.
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Old 12-23-2012, 08:51 AM
 
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OP...How about an update?? Hope things have improved w/ this great advice.
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Old 12-23-2012, 10:52 AM
 
Location: FL
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Get a Harley Davidson. Ever notice this phenomena? I've seen the ugliest out of shape beer belly dudes that are with some pretty hot looking women. Take away the bike and leathers and you'd say, no way, they're a complete mismatch.
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Old 12-23-2012, 11:59 AM
 
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Even with a six pack, you can't really see that with clothes on. You wouldn't be able to stand out from the many other men who are regularly fit. I have an aquainatance who is an amateur/professional wrestler who works out HARD six days a week for years and women like his body I'm sure, but they don't throw themselves on him.

Clothes from my experience don't matter either. But might as well try it. Go to the mall and buy some nice clothes. Wouldn't hurt to try. Cheap fix.
then get a kind of bodybuilder looks, you will definitely will stand out, specially wearing shirt.
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Old 12-23-2012, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Australia
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1. work out
2. get a stylist and wear nice clothes - remember, clothes maketh the man
3. get a good hairdresser
4. improve your grooming generally, zero/trimmed facial and pubic hair, wear fabulous aftershave
5. be spotlessly clean...including your car and surroundings
6. work out
7. get your teeth whitened/straightened
8. get manicures (yeah, there's a reason why that word has MAN in it - nice hands are as sexys as a nice butt to some women)
9. work out
10. be interested in her not yourself
11. be a gentleman at all times even if no ones looking
12. be nice to your mother
13. work out
14. dance like no one's looking
15. laugh like no ones listening
16. love like there's no tomorrow
17 work out.
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Old 12-23-2012, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope View Post
1. work out
2. get a stylist and wear nice clothes - remember, clothes maketh the man
3. get a good hairdresser
4. improve your grooming generally, zero/trimmed facial and pubic hair, wear fabulous aftershave
5. be spotlessly clean...including your car and surroundings
6. work out
7. get your teeth whitened/straightened
8. get manicures (yeah, there's a reason why that word has MAN in it - nice hands are as sexys as a nice butt to some women)
9. work out
10. be interested in her not yourself
11. be a gentleman at all times even if no ones looking
12. be nice to your mother
13. work out
14. dance like no one's looking
15. laugh like no ones listening
16. love like there's no tomorrow
17 work out.
Do the opposite of all of this this.

Two things will get you women:

1) Approach a lot
2) Don't give a sh*t

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Old 12-23-2012, 12:34 PM
 
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In a word, confidence. This doesn't mean walking around like you're hot ****. Rather, think about how you feel after something really good happens to you - like a promotion, good grade, getting a compliment, etc. Immediately after receiving whatever the positive is, a person tends to walk a little taller and have a bit of radiance. That's what confidence is.

And, in my personal opinion, it matters naught how expensive your clothes are, just that you put in some effort to not look slovenly. One can be stylish without breaking the bank. I find myself paying a bit more positive attention to men who can dress themselves well (unfortunately, not enough around these parts); probably because it's so rare.
This
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Old 12-23-2012, 12:42 PM
 
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Get big.
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Old 12-23-2012, 01:11 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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then get a kind of bodybuilder looks, you will definitely will stand out, specially wearing shirt.
But not necessarily in a good way...
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Old 12-23-2012, 01:39 PM
 
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Can't do much about an ugly face. But can definitely get in the gym and work on that body a little more. Women lose it when they meet a guy with a nice body that also dresses nice and smells good. Hang in there man and keep becoming the best you can be. Screw the ones that won't give you the time of day. Plenty more out here that will.
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