Will men stop desiring me once I get into my 30s and beyond? (husband, younger)
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Women over 30(more like 24) all have the same beat up look. Make up and botox can't hide it. It is in the eyes.
Well, to be fair, botox doesn't cover up black eyes - which I'm assuming you are talking about. You know, us women over 24 and our beat up look with our black eyes. Basically, once you turn 25 - people just punch you in the face over and over again. It's pretty hard not to look beat up when you are getting beat up everyday.
My 89 year old grandfather still found my 85 year old grandma when she died. My 66 year old dad lusts after my 65 year old mom. At 30 I still modeled and now at 41 I look younger.
OP, if you marry a man who loves you for you he will still find you attractive. However if he marries you for your looks (or you do the same)then sure it can break up. Once you are older, some men won't be interested strictly based on age but these aren't men you'd want anyway.
OP stop being ridiculous. As long as you work out and eat well, 30-40 isn't old in the slightest bit. I've seen many women who were EXTREMELY hot at 35 and older. Just don't drink too much, don't smoke, don't tan excessively, work out 3-4 days a week, eat well and you'll look great
Here are women in their 30s who look utterly spectacular
The question should be: Will you still want some of these men when you get into your 30s and beyond? I honestly think if I divorce or am widowed that I will just be by myself for the rest of my life by choice. Maybe I will have sex occassionally but I doubt I will have another serious ltr and another marriage is definitely off the table. The more I observe of their shallowness and knowing that my only value to most men is based on my appearance and sex makes me feel like who cares if they still want me...I don't want them. Who needs crumbs from the table? Buy a toy or a few or a dozen...get a few cats and be done with it.
It's like Peggy from Mad Men when her mom had a fit that she was moving in with a guy. She said: What am I supposed to do? Mom: You buy a cat and when it dies in 13 years...your buy another cat and when it dies in 13 years you get another one...and then you die. Basically that's what she said and I'm starting to believe it more and more each day.
Yes and when she is 50...60....70 etc? We have to age....all the exercise and botox in the world will only delay the inevitable for so long.
Op...real talk...yes you will likely end up alone anyway because women out-live most men anyway. Get used to it. We are all born alone and will all die alone. If you get lucky enough to find love at some point...it may not last and if it does, certainly one of you will die before the other. That's life.
Get used to self-sufficieny and learn how to love and entertain yourself. Develop a good support network. Make lots of friends and be a joiner when it comes to groups and volunteering and you will never be alone.
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Originally Posted by brahmabull117
OP stop being ridiculous. As long as you work out and eat well, 30-40 isn't old in the slightest bit. I've seen many women who were EXTREMELY hot at 35 and older. Just don't drink too much, don't smoke, don't tan excessively, work out 3-4 days a week, eat well and you'll look great
Here are women in their 30s who look utterly spectacular
Yes and when she is 50...60....70 etc? We have to age....all the exercise and botox in the world will only delay the inevitable for so long.
Absolutely...but why would you worry about turning 30 when 30 isn't even old? That's my whole point
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