Will men stop desiring me once I get into my 30s and beyond? (loving, young)
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C-D is actually a very accurate representation of what men think in the real world. In fact guys are more honest on here since they remain anonymous and there are no reprocussions.
The thread "I'd rather remain alone forever than date an unattractive woman" actually personifies how the vast majority of men think. And those who are currently married to a little porker are probably window shopping right now.
Sadly, I'm going to have to agree with you. I've been lucky/unlucky enough to be involved in male only professions where I was oftentimes the only female presence in entire departments/buildings. The things I heard and experiences would make most women swear off men forever... and in fact I'm getting very close to doing just that. These were married men, men in relationships, single men etc. and most of them considered women to be nothing more than a nuisance they had to keep around because they wanted semi regular sex.
The amount of window shopping, commenting (often rather lewdly) on women's bodies and treating certain women like trash because they simply weren't pretty enough was a bit of a shock for me in the beginning. I have no doubt there are decent men out there, of that I'm sure, but they do seem to be few and far between.
I am deathly afraid of getting older. It seems that when a woman approaches 30, she is no longer valuable or desirable to men as younger girls are. They'll just toss me aside and start chasing after 19 year olds. This is a very depressing state. If I get married, will my husband still lust after me or will he want to trade me in for a 20 year old??
This happens often enough to make a lot of women nervous. But there are plenty of men who aren't like this. Find one of them.
Sadly, I'm going to have to agree with you. I've been lucky/unlucky enough to be involved in male only professions where I was oftentimes the only female presence in entire departments/buildings. The things I heard and experiences would make most women swear off men forever... and in fact I'm getting very close to doing just that. These were married men, men in relationships, single men etc. and most of them considered women to be nothing more than a nuisance they had to keep around because they wanted semi regular sex.
The amount of window shopping, commenting (often rather lewdly) on women's bodies and treating certain women like trash because they simply weren't pretty enough was a bit of a shock for me in the beginning. I have no doubt there are decent men out there, of that I'm sure, but they do seem to be few and far between.
Keep in mind that a lot of men who behave this way do so as a form of display. They are basically bonding with other men by strutting around and talking like man-whores. I am not saying this sort of behavior is right. I am just saying it may not be indicative of their real feelings.
It's threads like this that really expose the lack of life understanding and experience... not raging on the OP or trying to be mean, but I wish the OP could read this thread when she was 40 plus.........
When I turned 30, my teeth got razor sharp. When I turned 31, I grew some scales. When I turned 32, I grew claws. When I was 33, I got a hunchback. At 34 I've shrunk 6 inches......
Seriously, honey, I have enjoyed my 30s way more than my 20s and it keeps getting better. I love getting older. I also look better than I did in my mid and late 20s.
I wonder if I'll be interested in an older guy when I get around to dating again...I'm 41. Worrying about your age is waste of time. Go get some skills and buy yourself some plastic surgery if you are insecure...never rely on someone other than yourself to feel beautiful.
When I turned 30, my teeth got razor sharp. When I turned 31, I grew some scales. When I turned 32, I grew claws. When I was 33, I got a hunchback. At 34 I've shrunk 6 inches......
Seriously, honey, I have enjoyed my 30s way more than my 20s and it keeps getting better. I love getting older. I also look better than I did in my mid and late 20s.
Me too! I look better and feel better than I did 10 or 15 years ago. I'm more confident, too, which is something men like.
They were the best in bed and loved to do it, and didn't care I was only 24 when they were 38. They simply loved to have fun.
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