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I stated before that I would never stoop to the level of stalking her. I believe it is okay to admire from afar, but I believe that stalking is never acceptable in any circumstance.
You also need to understand that women choose to be with a particular guy and thats that.
The sooner you try to get that, the better off you will be.
No one OWES you a thing in this life, especially a chance at a relationship with them.
I understand that. However, this is something of great importance to me. Who we pick as our future partner has to be someone of the highest standards; and I have found that person.
No logical person would suggest someone to "give up" or "move on" if they truly understood that that I had found my soulmate.
I understand that we have been looking at this from the girl's perspective. However, please try and consider my perspective and what her rejection truly means to me. It means that everything I have always hoped for in a partner has rejected me, and consequently made me a bachelor for life.
I understand that. However, this is something of great importance to me. Who we pick as our future partner has to be someone of the highest standards; and I have found that person.
No logical person would suggest someone to "give up" or "move on" if they truly understood that that I had found my soulmate.
I understand that we have been looking at this from the girl's perspective. However, please try and consider my perspective and what her rejection truly means to me. It means that everything I have always hoped for in a partner has rejected me, and consequently made me a bachelor for life.
As dramatic as that sounds it is true.
The rationale of a twisted mind is, not surprisingly, twisted
The things you believe are "true" prove you need professional help.
I understand that. However, this is something of great importance to me. Who we pick as our future partner has to be someone of the highest standards; and I have found that person.
No logical person would suggest someone to "give up" or "move on" if they truly understood that that I had found my soulmate.
I understand that we have been looking at this from the girl's perspective. However, please try and consider my perspective and what her rejection truly means to me. It means that everything I have always hoped for in a partner has rejected me, and consequently made me a bachelor for life.
As dramatic as that sounds it is true.
Jay you are making the choice to throw your life away for a girl you barely know. You dont even understand that you are doing that. Your perspective makes little sense considering everything you have told us.
Can you answer this? Do you even have anything in common? If you cant answer that perhaps it is time to move on to someone you do have something in common with.
The rationale of a twisted mind is, not surprisingly, twisted
The things you believe are "true" prove you need professional help.
I have always said that I respect you, and your opinion. That being said I question your rationale of dismissing my true feelings.
Yes, this is hard on the girl; it is actually really hard on both of us.
However to try and describe how you truly feel, and have someone completely negate your feelings as meaningless is utterly demoralizing on your part. Please try and consider that before giving advice on this topic again. Thank you.
when u r ape fire nuts about the woman and she is not that into u it rarely works.
wanting anything to where u will pay any price is never a good thing.
I have always said that I respect you, and your opinion. That being said I question your rationale of dismissing my true feelings.
Yes, this is hard on the girl; it is actually really hard on both of us.
However to try and describe how you truly feel, and have someone completely negate your feelings as meaningless is utterly demoralizing on your part. Please try and consider that before giving advice on this topic again. Thank you.
I am not dismissing your feelings.
I am dismissing the twisted logic your feelings have led you to.
Feelings are never right or wrong, and everyone has a right to feel how they feel.
But when we let those feelings rule us and dictate our lives we have lost our emotional health.
(THIS is what you are doing, especially when you say you'll never marry anyone if you can't have this girl.)
Jay the best thing you should do is talk to a therapist about your feelings. One can only help you and perhaps make you understand what you are doing to this girl is not right. A therapist would be very objective and honest with you.
That said, what you want from this girl is unreasonable. If you truly care about her you will leave her alone and not wish unhappiness on her. She does not owe you anything. Think about this. If she gave you a chance, it would be what you wanted. What If she did give you a chance. It would be out of pity not love. Do you want to live your life that way? Do you want her to live her life that way?
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