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Old 04-27-2013, 10:22 AM
 
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It is not for you to say if I will never achieve my goal.

I will reiterate: I am not interested in; "attracting women", that is off topic. I am only interested in this particular young lady. Please try and get that through your head, instead of suggesting otherwise.
Prove it. Prove that you will achieve your goal.

 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:25 AM
 
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Yes, she is. She is quite a special and unique person, well worth waiting for.
Do you believe it's possible you're idealizing her?

What if you got her, and she doesn't measure up? After all - you truly don't know her.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:25 AM
 
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Yes, she is. She is quite a special and unique person, well worth waiting for.
Then wait. It's your life, after all. Others on this forum may argue that it's "unhealthy", and you should "see a therapist", but just like you aren't going to change your mind, these people will not change their advice.

...Or maybe they will. Nothing is certain.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:28 AM
 
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Then wait. It's your life, after all. Others on this forum may argue that it's "unhealthy", and you should "see a therapist", but just like you aren't going to change your mind, these people will not change their advice.

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I will wait; but in the meantime, I hope to work towards acheiving this goal.

Thank you for attempting to understand my perspective.
Best.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:29 AM
 
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I will wait; but in the meantime, I hope to work towards acheiving this goal.

Thank you for attempting to understand.
Best.
My question is, how will you achieve your goal?
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Texas
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My question is, how will you achieve your goal?
That remains to be seen. But I am open to any suggestions.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:34 AM
 
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That remains to be seen. But I am open to any suggestions.
You better get going, or sooner or later you're going to find this woman of yours engaged to someone. Along with other perfect women who you did not give a chance.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:37 AM
 
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You better get going, or sooner or later you're going to find this woman of yours engaged to someone. .

That is exactly what worries me. In this case time is of the essence; so, some progress must be made soon before it is too late for me.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:38 AM
 
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Just make sure you don't get a restraining order against you. A guy I knew became obsessive and I repeatedly told him I had no interest. He ended up parking on my block, in front of my house. Sometimes he would drive around to places he knew I went and wait in the parking lot. I got a restraining order against him even though he never physically touched me. They aren't that hard to get. I think it would be best for you to move on as she clearly isn't into you.
 
Old 04-27-2013, 10:42 AM
 
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A guy I knew became obsessive and I repeatedly told him I had no interest. He ended up parking on my block, in front of my house. Sometimes he would drive around to places he knew I went and wait in the parking lot..
I do NOTHING of this sort; and never would. In fact I currently don't even own a car.
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