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That is the point! I don't understand why she cannot simply ignore my looks(since she considers than so undesirable.), and thus have a relationship?
You can understand.
The question is "Why can't she simply ignore my looks"?
The answer is "Because she doesn't want to".
The next question is "Why doesn't she want to"?
The next answer is "Because she doesn't like you in sexual manner".
The next question is "Why doesn't she like you in a sexual manner"?
The next answer is "Her biology is not allowing her to feel any chemistry with you" or "You have some sort of personality flaw that she doesn't find attractive".
The next question is "Why isn't her body allowing her to feel any chemistry to you"? or "What personality flaw do you have that she doesn't find attractive"?
The next answer is "Because that is how the god/evolution made human beings". or "We don't know what personality flaw that you have that she doesn't like".
*edit* I'm not trying to be mean, I still care about you Jay!!! *hugs*
That is the point! I don't understand why she cannot simply ignore my looks(since she considers than so undesirable.), and thus have a relationship?
Jay why should she have to ignore your looks? If she does, she wont be happy. If you truly loved her, you would care about her feelings and it doesnt seem like you do. You cant force a woman to love you.
Also as a woman I can say its not just looks. Its personality also and you need to work on that. You really do need to work on yourself and make yourself a better person. That means not blaming this girl for your issues and problems. You simply need to change your thinking and behavior. You already turned her off by both your looks and behavior.
Because; it is far from the most important thing in a true relationship. Her refusal the get to know me based on what is outside is not logical.
I admire her for both her appearance and intellectual abilities/personality. Looks should never have the emphasis of being a deciding factor.
Sorry to break it to you, but thats the way it is. Attraction is necessary for most people to have a relationship. It may not be the top thing for everyone, but it is a factor for everyone.
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