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Jay - it doesn't sound like you have a plan to attract her, so let me suggest one.
What you've been trying isn't working, so lets change it.
Rather than pushing it at this time and making her think less of you - back off. Show her you can take a hint. Work on yourself - find hobbies, exercise, work on becoming a well rounded person.
Talk to other girls. Not to begin a relationship (since the other girl is the goal) - but to develop your skills at communicating with women, ease your nerves around them, so one day you can confidently walk up to your "goal," and be the type of person she wants to be around.
But remember - this is a long term goal.
But you're not going to win her if you don't first work on yourself.
Sometimes the truth hurts. Life isn't all flowers and sunshine. We have all gone through heartbreak. A healthy person goes through it and comes out the other side. You are not doing that.
Agreed, that life isn't always fair. I am trying to get out of unfortunate predicament; yet is proving to be harder than expected.
Jay - it doesn't sound like you have a plan to attract her, so let me suggest one.
What you've been trying isn't working, so lets change it.
Rather than pushing it at this time and making her think less of you - back off. Show her you can take a hint. Work on yourself - find hobbies, exercise, work on becoming a well rounded person.
so one day you can confidently walk up to your "goal," and be the type of person she wants to be around.
But remember - this is a long term goal.
But you're not going to win her if you don't first work on yourself.
Excellent idea.
I have already begun to do this by my pursuit of a career in building operations/engineering.
Jay, theoretically, what if she gave you the opportunity to prove yourself and she still didn't like you afterward? Maybe you were meant to be single in this life.
I have question for you........do you underline everything you write in real life?
Only when trying to make a point.
I will stop if it bothers you?
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