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Yeah, just about every girl I know who has placed an ad has been swamped with replies. Whether they are hot or average their inbox is full. Granted most of them are one liners or creepers sending inappropriate photos, but it's rare that a girl would only get a few replies over a few weeks.
Well, I've got the perfect formula for getting ignored on dating sites:
Meh, you're likely your own worst critic. It could be any number of reasons. Believe it or not some guys may just not bother thinking they'll never have a chance. There is that percentage of guys out there. Have you tried answering other guys ads? That would give you an advantage because guys aren't getting their inboxes flooded with replies.
Not sure if you've considered it, but if you're going out in the heart of Boston you might want to consider some of the outer cities that aren't as heavily populated with college kids and tourists such as Woburn or Somerville.
I was at a conference the other day, there were 20 women in the room, of these 20, I counted, only four would have been considered, 'thin, fit, or slim'. The women were between the ages of 30-50.
I was actually astonished, the world is not full of thin women. So, men looking for 'Angelina Jolie', should really have a reality check.
No, this was not a Weight Watchers meeting, it was a conference of professional women, for learning about government administration.
I was at a conference the other day, there were 20 women in the room, of these 20, I counted, only four would have been considered, 'thin, fit, or slim'. The women were between the ages of 30-50.
I was actually astonished, the world is not full of thin women. So, men looking for 'Angelina Jolie', should really have a reality check.
No, this was not a Weight Watchers meeting, it was a conference of professional women, for learning about government administration.
The sad thing is most of the men looking for Angelina Jolie are no Brad Pitt. I do understand handsome men seeking their equal but almost always it's the subpar men who think they deserve the Angelina Jolie's like the Brad Pitt's. I couldn't begin to mention all the obese men who state "must be thin".
Meh, you're likely your own worst critic. It could be any number of reasons. Believe it or not some guys may just not bother thinking they'll never have a chance. There is that percentage of guys out there. Have you tried answering other guys ads? That would give you an advantage because guys aren't getting their inboxes flooded with replies.
Not sure if you've considered it, but if you're going out in the heart of Boston you might want to consider some of the outer cities that aren't as heavily populated with college kids and tourists such as Woburn or Somerville.
I've sent out probably...30 messages? I've received 4 replies so far, and only 2 of those were decent. The other two just assumed I wanted a hookup
And yeah, the last guy I went out with was up in Somerville but I don't have a car so I have to stay somewhat within the city. I don't want to make a guy have to drive me everywhere, so it's better if we're fairly close.
I was at a conference the other day, there were 20 women in the room, of these 20, I counted, only four would have been considered, 'thin, fit, or slim'. The women were between the ages of 30-50.
I was actually astonished, the world is not full of thin women. So, men looking for 'Angelina Jolie', should really have a reality check.
No, this was not a Weight Watchers meeting, it was a conference of professional women, for learning about government administration.
Location?
Also, at that age range, people start to get fat and ugly. At least those who don't take care of themselves.
I've sent out probably...30 messages? I've received 4 replies so far, and only 2 of those were decent. The other two just assumed I wanted a hookup
And yeah, the last guy I went out with was up in Somerville but I don't have a car so I have to stay somewhat within the city. I don't want to make a guy have to drive me everywhere, so it's better if we're fairly close.
Isn't there a free trial you could try for paid sites?
Isn't there a free trial you could try for paid sites?
I'm only looking to casually date now, so I'm not going to pay for that.
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