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Devil, I understand you are a virgin, so I am going to try to be nice.
Men, and women, usually want to determine compatibility before sex, if they are interested in a LTR. Women also have to determine physical safety.
If a woman waits longer than the man does, it is usually because that's what the man needs. Many men are unable to take a relationship seriously if it becomes sexual too quickly. Women do not usually have this problem. In order to help him, she waits.
Wait....he's an 18 year old virgin giving advice on sex and relationships?
usually when i am really into someone i want to sleep with them asap, but if i'm interested in a relationship i'll wait long enough so that it seems respectable lol (a couple weeks maybe)
So you make someone who is "relationship material" "wait" but won't hesitate to bang someone who is "not relationship material".
These kinds of game players perpetuate many of the problems in the dating world.
This is why you see more guys acting like douche's and jerks now.
They see douchy guys and jerks getting sex on demand without any commitments, while boyfriends have to do the whole dinner, movies, be polite, buy her gifts script and not getting sex until the 10th date.
The thing is, if you are dating someone successfully... meaning there is attraction, chemistry, interest, good times, desire to continue...
Then likely someone (or both) will start making moves and initiate sex at some point... and that point sooner or later. Exactly when depends on the individuals, but when things are going well there is usually enough desire for it that it doesn't take too long of a time.
The real key is to be sure the dating is going well. If one person thinks the date sucked, they are not nearly as likely to go home with you.
The thing is, if you are dating someone successfully... meaning there is attraction, chemistry, interest, good times, desire to continue...
Then likely someone (or both) will start making moves and initiate sex at some point... and that point sooner or later. Exactly when depends on the individuals, but when things are going well there is usually enough desire for it that it doesn't take too long of a time.
The real key is to be sure the dating is going well. If one person thinks the date sucked, they are not nearly as likely to go home with you.
I definitely agree with the last part... I think as long as things are progressing at a pace both parties are comfortable with then it doesn't matter if it happens on the second date, or the 20th. Obviously people here think I'm 'moving too slow', but considering me and the guy I'm seeing have communicated quite frankly regarding the physical progression we're both happy with where it's headed.
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Originally Posted by NilaJones
Not 18 yet, IIUC.
His advice just consists of the standard PUA lines.
Agreed...so he's a high school kid reading Roosh and trying to run with the big dogs?
So you make someone who is "relationship material" "wait" but won't hesitate to bang someone who is "not relationship material".
These kinds of game players perpetuate many of the problems in the dating world.
This is why you see more guys acting like douche's and jerks now.
They see douchy guys and jerks getting sex on demand without any commitments, while boyfriends have to do the whole dinner, movies, be polite, buy her gifts script and not getting sex until the 10th date.
Which do you think guys are going to emulate?
Who cares, they're both getting sex. It's not a competition.
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