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Old 07-30-2013, 08:15 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Raena77 View Post
I thought it was when you kiss and he touches your boob? The lady allows or says no.
I recently let someone feel me up and felt quite ashamed afterwards.

Guess that means sex isn't imminent.
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Old 07-30-2013, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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considering that all my biggest interests are male dominated as hell, sort of

on the plus side I tend to like slutty party girls because they share 3 major interests with me(getting laid, getting high and getting drunk)
And there you go. But don't try to treat decent women like party girls...they won't have it.

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You don't believe this part of what he said is true tho?

"This type of manipulative behavior by women, teaches men to treat them badly, in order to get sex faster. If women reward guys who treat them like crap or otherwise display non-relationship traits with sex right away, more and more men will treat you with non-relationship traits."

You really don't believe, the reason certain men treat women like crap is because they see other men treat girls like crap and are highly successful at it?
There are all kinds of people out there. I've had guys try to treat me badly thinking it will get them laid but it usually just gets them yelled at or an elbow to the gut if they dare lay a hand on me without my permission. On a good day I'll roll my eyes and walk away. Those men are obviously just trying to get laid so they're not for me, but they can continue treating women with Daddy issues and low self esteem like crap to get what they want....I want nothing to do with that.
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Old 07-30-2013, 01:41 PM
 
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I recently let someone feel me up and felt quite ashamed afterwards.

Guess that means sex isn't imminent.
I find that incredibly sad. Someone touched you, and that makes you ASHAMED?
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Old 07-30-2013, 01:56 PM
 
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Very true, but apparently the joy of basic sex is sufficient for many.

If filet mignon is an awesome intimate relationship, there are still times when I just want a burger.
If I have to "get" into the pants of what amounts to an unwilling partner, that is not a burger. That is worse than liver and onions.
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Old 07-30-2013, 02:41 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I recently let someone feel me up and felt quite ashamed afterwards.

Guess that means sex isn't imminent.
this means one of 2 things

1. for whatever reason you're not very sexual and a prude at heart(which could mean really young, religious or be a product of your upbringing)

2. you don't like him very much

only you can know which it is.

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And there you go. But don't try to treat decent women like party girls...they won't have it.
I don't, I'm just saying, for me it's a waste of time and money to date someone with no sex, but if I don't have to be exclusive and she doesn't want me to spend $200 a date then I can stomach it for a bit

exclusivity without sex is for suckers though.

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There are all kinds of people out there. I've had guys try to treat me badly thinking it will get them laid but it usually just gets them yelled at or an elbow to the gut if they dare lay a hand on me without my permission. On a good day I'll roll my eyes and walk away. Those men are obviously just trying to get laid so they're not for me, but they can continue treating women with Daddy issues and low self esteem like crap to get what they want....I want nothing to do with that.
it doesn't work on you, to put it into layman's terms:

this is a girl who gets showered with compliments by everyone, she is the kind of girl who you could get by acting like a jerk

this is the kind of girl who is invisible to most men, she is not used to special treatment, and is therefor not numb to it, she is however used to not being treated particularly well, therefor acting like a jerk does nothing, but acting like a gentleman gets her to fall for you

hint: one of them is you.

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If I have to "get" into the pants of what amounts to an unwilling partner, that is not a burger. That is worse than liver and onions.
you're either really really amazing in person or intensely delusional

both would explain why the concept of women not just falling into your lap from the sky is foreign to you
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Old 07-30-2013, 02:42 PM
 
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I find that incredibly sad. Someone touched you, and that makes you ASHAMED?
I just wasn't planning on going that far with him at that time (I was specifically planning NOT to) and I felt bad about being so passive and not having more self-control.
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Old 07-30-2013, 02:44 PM
 
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both would explain why the concept of women not just falling into your lap from the sky is foreign to you

I have never had any trouble at all getting women... despite being one!
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Old 07-30-2013, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Tampa bay
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I am 51 now and if I would do it over again...I would like to say I would wait longer than the first date which I have done in my younger days.
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Old 07-30-2013, 02:46 PM
 
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Its ranged anywhere from 5 minutes to 1 year. Just depends.
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Old 07-30-2013, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Tampa bay
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Its ranged anywhere from 5 minutes to 1 year. Just depends.
wow 5 minutes? do you even know thier name?
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