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Actually, there was one where I didnt know her name, but that wasn't my fault. When I was 18 I got my first apartment. The night I moved in, I was walking some clothes down to the laundry facility (it was late). While holding a big pile of clothes in my arms, a girl who I had never seen before walks out of the shadows, walks right up to me, and without saying a word, grabs me by my junk, and leads me into the laundry room, pulls my pants down, gives me a bj, finishes, zips up my pants, pecks me on the cheek with a kiss, smiles, and runs off.
1. for whatever reason you're not very sexual and a prude at heart(which could mean really young, religious or be a product of your upbringing)
2. you don't like him very much
only you can know which it is.
I don't, I'm just saying, for me it's a waste of time and money to date someone with no sex, but if I don't have to be exclusive and she doesn't want me to spend $200 a date then I can stomach it for a bit
exclusivity without sex is for suckers though.
it doesn't work on you, to put it into layman's terms:
this is a girl who gets showered with compliments by everyone, she is the kind of girl who you could get by acting like a jerk
this is the kind of girl who is invisible to most men, she is not used to special treatment, and is therefor not numb to it, she is however used to not being treated particularly well, therefor acting like a jerk does nothing, but acting like a gentleman gets her to fall for you
hint: one of them is you.
you're either really really amazing in person or intensely delusional
both would explain why the concept of women not just falling into your lap from the sky is foreign to you
I'll take being the Velma any day She's smart, capable and does what she wants to do. I'm no pretty princess that needs to be constantly saved.
I'll take being the Velma any day She's smart, capable and does what she wants to do. I'm no pretty princess that needs to be constantly saved.
makes sense, but it also means that you won't have any betas orbiting you willing to do anything up to and including paying your rent and bailing you out of jail
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Of course. I'm not a pig.
Actually, there was one where I didnt know her name, but that wasn't my fault. When I was 18 I got my first apartment. The night I moved in, I was walking some clothes down to the laundry facility (it was late). While holding a big pile of clothes in my arms, a girl who I had never seen before walks out of the shadows, walks right up to me, and without saying a word, grabs me by my junk, and leads me into the laundry room, pulls my pants down, gives me a bj, finishes, zips up my pants, pecks me on the cheek with a kiss, smiles, and runs off.
Not a word.
wow, is it always that awesome being you?
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I have certainly dated plenty of them. I would not choose a man with attitudes like yours.
you wouldn't know my attitude anyway, serious conversation isn't my style, comedy is.
you'd think I was awesome for 5 dates or so, then you'd hear an excuse and never see me again if we didn't have sex
makes sense, but it also means that you won't have any betas orbiting you willing to do anything up to and including paying your rent and bailing you out of jail
I can pay my own rent and I'm not a dumbass so I won't be in jail anytime soon.
I don't need the constant adoration that you seem to feel women crave.
I wish I could say yes. Many times it was not so awesome being me. I've had as many (if not more) failures as I have had success.
My friend Dusty was one of those guys (who it was awesome being them). Probably the most attractive man Ive ever known in my life. We were best friends for years. I remember him and I decided to be roommates and rent an apartment together. The day we move in, our next door neighbor (cute young thing) introduces herself to us and offers to help us move boxes.
About an hour later I tell Dusty and our new neighbor friend that I need a nap. I go upstairs to my room and as Im laying there, I start hearing panting. Its only been about 10 minutes. I walk downstairs and theres our new neighbor, bouncing up and down on Dusty on our living room floor. He looks up at me and smiles. I shake my head and go back to my room, lol.
There is a man I know (hes in his late 40s now), but years ago when we hung out I noticed he always had girls over his place and always had a date, was never alone. But he was kind of plain and mild mannered. An accountant, no less.
Anyway I asked him what his deal was and he told me a story which I laughed off as bull****. Until I saw it for myself first hand
On Wed, Thurs, Fri and Sat nights he goes from bar to bar, club to club. Walks right up to strange women, doesnt care if theyre in a group of friends, sitting alone, or even with a guy. He walks right up to them, introduces himself, and initiates smalltalk for about...one minute. At this point he asks, "Hey how about we cut all the beating around the bush. Wanna come over to my place and have some pizza and sex?"
If they say "NO", he answers "Well what is it about pizza that you don't like?"
Most girls laugh at the joke and tell him to move on. Some girls laugh at the joke, and eventually go home with him anyway. And SOME girls, believe it or not, just straight up say "Yes." They pack up and off they go.
Mind boggling.
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She's smart, capable and does what she wants to do. I'm no pretty princess that needs to be constantly saved.
