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for men that means how long does it usually take to get a girl into bed when you date a new one
Look, you can't "get a girl into bed". They make up their minds based on whether they want to have sex and whom they want to have sex with, as in "you". Both conditions are necessary and you have little control over either.
My wife approached me. I had never seen her before. Later, she told me she went home with me because i had a drop of sweat on my face, long hair and a "sweet smile." I said yes because she was simply the most beautiful woman in the room and had an overwhelming aura of sexuality about her. When we danced, I felt completely uninhibited.
Look, you can't "get a girl into bed". They make up their minds based on whether they want to have sex and whom they want to have sex with, as in "you". Both conditions are necessary and you have little control over either.
The reverse is also true, sex happens when there is mutual agreement.
OP, your post implies that the timing of sex is all about manipulation and game playing, which is not an attitude conducive to developing a good relationship that includes sex.
for men that means how long does it usually take to get a girl into bed when you date a new one
somewhere between a few hours and a few weeks.
i generally view sexuality as a prerequisite to pursuing someone in the context of a relationship. so in other words, if a girl acts totally asexual around me, i will ignore her completely as a potential short-term or long-term partner. The idea of waiting around trying to convince someone i'm sexually appealing seems really pointless to me.
Normally I don't wait long at all. Sexual chemistry is at the top of my list and if there is none, I need to find out ASAP and move on.
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