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Originally Posted by savoytruffle
Asexuals exist (doesn't seem to be the case here)
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Three to six months doesn't seem unreasonable to me at all!
But she doesn't make it that far because she sabotages the relationship due to her fears that sex might be coming. That doesn't make sense or seem healthy.
You're not the poster (sorry, can't remember) that wants to be married with kids, but doesn't really think she's straight / has confused sexuality, are you?
No, I think I'm straight. The only women that I've been attracted to were a few lesbians who could pass for guys. lol
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Originally Posted by savoytruffle
I agree with jaypee that maybe you just haven't found the right guy to "do it" with yet. But really, when you have a strong emotional connection to that person, sex becomes more than just insert this-in-that, but much more intimate and enjoyable.
Some people are fine with just the physical pleasure of it, which isn't wrong at all, but you seem to feel differently. I think a lot of guys are willing to wait, or would actually prefer to do that, but don't admit to it. Three to six months doesn't seem unreasonable to me at all!
Thanks for your input! I hope you're right that I just haven't found the right guy yet.
But she doesn't make it that far because she sabotages the relationship due to her fears that sex might be coming. That doesn't make sense or seem healthy.
I did have one relationship that lasted for about a year and a half, but yeah, the others were only a few months or less.
I agree with jaypee that maybe you just haven't found the right guy to "do it" with yet. But really, when you have a strong emotional connection to that person, sex becomes more than just insert this-in-that, but much more intimate and enjoyable.
Some people are fine with just the physical pleasure of it, which isn't wrong at all, but you seem to feel differently. I think a lot of guys are willing to wait, or would actually prefer to do that, but don't admit to it. Three to six months doesn't seem unreasonable to me at all!
Yeah, when sex is a natural progression (when it "feels right") it's intimate and fun and ... sexy!
It's not supposed to be like a chore (not until you;re married for 40 years, at least, lol).
Though, didn't sound like you adored penises either.
I don't dislike penises, I'm just afraid of being hurt by them. I don't mind them in situations where they aren't hurting me. Vaginas I just have no interest in whatsoever.
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Yes she does, she likes mammarian intercourse, right SLS?
LOL, what? I have nothing against the concept but I'm not busty enough to do it.
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