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I'm not in relationship. Hell, I've never been with a woman over a month but sometimes these stories make me feel better about my single status. I can do whatever I want. My only priority is my dog and she's well taken care of.
That's an odd comment to make on this thread. It sounds like you you feel bad for the husband that he can't go out with hookers until 4am because his wife gets all upset.
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That's an odd comment to make on this thread. It sounds like you you feel bad for the husband that he can't go out with hookers until 4am because his wife gets all upset.
Naw, he just looks for opportunities to chime in the same song (I'm happier being single / dating isn't for me / everytime I tried it (for supposedly a month ) I was mistreated / being single is great for me). It doesn't matter the relevance. I doubt he thought about how it read.
That's an odd comment to make on this thread. It sounds like you you feel bad for the husband that he can't go out with hookers until 4am because his wife gets all upset.
And where, pray tell, are they going to dinner at 2am? No restaurants are open at that hour.
They are both liars.
Denny's and a few other chains are open 24 hrs., aren't they?
OP, I would be surprised if he got violent. He's never gotten violent with you before, has he? He might make a lot of noise, but I'd be surprised if he hurt you. Still, it sounds like your mom has a good plan.
Denny's and a few other chains are open 24 hrs., aren't they?
OP, I would be surprised if he got violent. He's never gotten violent with you before, has he? He might make a lot of noise, but I'd be surprised if he hurt you. Still, it sounds like your mom has a good plan.
He has never ever hurt me Ruth. When he gets very angry, he yells, and then he retracts to his shell but never hurt me.
Here mostly the bars/pubs close at 2 AM but the restaurants are open until 4 AM in most party places. We are talking downtown.
That's an odd comment to make on this thread. It sounds like you you feel bad for the husband that he can't go out with hookers until 4am because his wife gets all upset.
Just expressing my thoughts on the matter In reality, what married people do is none of my business at all. I've never been in love, haven't come close to it so I don't understand the situation. If the OP has a problem with it, she needs to communicate with her husband. If he won't listen there's a problem.
Just expressing my thoughts on the matter In reality, what married people do is none of my business at all. I've never been in love, haven't come close to it so I don't understand the situation. If the OP has a problem with it, she needs to communicate with her husband. If he won't listen there's a problem.
I'm guessing you didn't read the thread. Most women have an problem with their husbands going to hookers behind their backs.
How is it even possible he has been doing this for a while and I had no idea?! I must have been really blind to catch the obvious signs.
I will leave him Lilac. I guess right now I feel so lost and alone that I am hanging on to every hope. When I run out of excuses (which will happen soon enough), I will leave him.
I dont know either.
Sudcaro, I dearly love him. Or so I am thinking. I think thats why right now I am finding it hard to even imagine not spending my life with him. I read a documentary once where a woman falls in love with her abuser (abducted and abused). At that time I was thinking she is mental. I must be mental too at this rate.
As for the "why", he always says its because of me. If he gets crazy angry, its because of me. If he chooses not to talk to me months on end, its because of something I said/done. If he is going to a hooker, its because he chose not to be intimate with me (for something I have done).
Even I feel I should leave him. There is no hope.
The reason why I need more evidence is to confirm that he is doing it. Once he agrees to his cheating, I will have to leave him.
I am so sorry. I don't understand the need victims have to gather evidence and get a confession. I'm a retired PI and I can tell you from experience what to expect. Cheaters will deny, deny, deny, even when faced with overwhelming evidence. They will twist things around and blame YOU for being suspicious or make you feel crazy. You can count on this.
You already know everything you need you know. The writing is on the wall. I'm sorry but I wouldn't even wait to have the baby. I'd move in with a supportive family member now. Again, I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you.
OK...you were ALL right. I was wrong. So wrong I had mistaken a pig for an elephant.
i logged into the phone service providers website. He gave me access without asking any questions. The history stayed for 90 days...starting Feb 15th, 2015. Since then he had been in touch with escort services at least 5 times. I havent checked every week. After knowing 5 times, whats another 5 going to do. That friend was bull****ting to protect his friend.
Now i am just waiting for the right time to talk. I am planning on waiting until Friday, take a day off and then talk to him. I dont think I can wait until the baby is here. He has another 3 months to come. So just maybe we will figure something out before that.
It seems the first trimester symptoms have returned. I keep vomiting all the time suddenly. I hope my BP doesnt drop. Thats not good for me.
I feel like dying.
Yes, I know its a sin to be pregnant and then kill myself. I wont do it. The urge is overwhelming. But I wont do it.
You already know everything you need you know. The writing is on the wall. I'm sorry but I wouldn't even wait to have the baby. I'd move in with a supportive family member now. Again, I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you.
I dont have any family here. I am stuck until we decide what to do.
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) I was mistreated / being single is great for me). It doesn't matter the relevance. I doubt he thought about how it read.
