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Old 02-26-2016, 11:59 AM
 
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this video right here says it all:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91SlnIVDFso

 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:04 PM
 
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WTF its never been easier for woman, nor for men.
Both people have to find someone compatible in most levels that's ****ing hard for both a men and women to find.
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:10 PM
 
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Women don't have to work as hard in dating because opportunities fall into their lap. Men have to take action or else they'll be alone forever.
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:11 PM
 
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Women don't have to work as hard in dating because opportunities fall into their lap. Men have to take action or else they'll be alone forever.
exactly, that video I posted says it all, being shy, quiet, introverted, socially-awkward, socially-inept is a thousand, million, billion times worse if you are a guy because no matter how modern human society has become, guys are still expected to approach and make the first move, start conversation first, ask out, be the initiators.
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:14 PM
 
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exactly, that video I posted says it all, being shy, quiet, introverted, socially-awkward, socially-inept is a thousand, million, billion times worse if you are a guy because no matter how modern human society has become, guys are still expected to approach and make the first move, start conversation first, ask out, be the initiators.
You're also missing the point of compatibility. I can't just end up with some random woman, as a hook up yea, but a LTR god both women and men have a hard time finding some who are compatible in most levels in terms, of goals, personality, sex, money, etc.

A woman really has it no easier than a man. I guess if your talkin about getting laid I guess but most won't be after that.
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:18 PM
 
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You're also missing the point of compatibility. I can't just end up with some random woman, as a hook up yea, but a LTR god both women and men have a hard time finding some who are compatible in most levels in terms, of goals, personality, sex, money, etc.

A woman really has it no easier than a man. I guess if your talkin about getting laid I guess but most won't be after that.
I guess it's all a matter of perspective then, just because it's the way it is, just because it's the way the world works doesn't mean I have to like it or enjoy it, in this regards i'm referring to the way the human mating dance works.
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:19 PM
 
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You're also missing the point of compatibility. I can't just end up with some random woman, as a hook up yea, but a LTR god both women and men have a hard time finding some who are compatible in most levels in terms, of goals, personality, sex, money, etc.

A woman really has it no easier than a man. I guess if your talkin about getting laid I guess but most won't be after that.
While random sex seems fun I believe it can get tiresome after awhile.
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:22 PM
 
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I guess it's all a matter of perspective then, just because it's the way it is, just because it's the way the world works doesn't mean I have to like it or enjoy it, in this regards i'm referring to the way the human mating dance works.
I never heard of the written rule of men making the first rule and while it seems to be common, at the end of the day, finding a partner you are compatible with is the most important thing for both genders. It doesn't matter who makes the first move, put it to you this way the more picky men and woman are the less likely they will find someone and more likey be alone.
A woman can approach me if she wants but are we compatible, are we on the same page on most things? Do I like her personality and does she like me? Does she like sex as much as I do?

I like dating and all but I can't stand dating people who completely disagree with me on a lot of things I believe in.

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Old 02-26-2016, 12:30 PM
 
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I never heard of the written rule of men making the first rule and while it seems to be common, at the end of the day, finding a partner you are compatible with is the most important thing for both genders. It doesn't matter who makes the first move, put it to you this way the more picky men and woman are the less likely they will find someone and more likey be alone.
A woman can approach me if she wants but are we compatible, are we on the same page on most things? Do I like her personality and does she like me? Does she like sex as much as I do?
true a woman can make the first move, approach if she wants but it almost never happens, women are stubbornly, adamantly passive, well most of them, almost all of them are
 
Old 02-26-2016, 12:35 PM
 
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While random sex seems fun I believe it can get tiresome after awhile.
We have a lot of people around here doing a lot of theorizing lately about things they don't have experience with.
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