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Old 09-25-2015, 08:37 PM
 
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God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve! Amirite? /sarcasm

My suggestion: Ditch the True Religion jeans and Abercrombie tee for an off-brand pants and a Dying Fetus tee... and grow your hair out. If you're a homophobe looking for Gay-Be-Goneā„¢, nothing beats long hair on a dude. Nothing.
LOL! I wouldn't say a homophobe, but I don't care for swinging the goods in the locker while the dudes watch. Now maybe the ladies locker room ... I've actually thought of growing the hair out again! It's a dying trend.
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Old 09-25-2015, 08:42 PM
 
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LOL! I wouldn't say a homophobe, but I don't care for swinging the goods in the locker while the dudes watch. Now maybe the ladies locker room ... I've actually thought of growing the hair out again! It's a dying trend.
Not really. It's pretty big (particularly mid-length) with millennials at the moment. I nixed mine for an undercut about six months ago.
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Old 09-25-2015, 08:52 PM
 
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Not really. It's pretty big (particularly mid-length) with millennials at the moment. I nixed mine for an undercut about six months ago.
well there you go not a nonconformist after all .. now if I just had the patience ...
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Old 09-25-2015, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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And earlier. Now we feel like we live forever, so we postpone everything. And by the time people start to realize their job is not what life is about and that they need to get serious, they are often 30 or 40 and all of a sudden in a hurry as their appeal is already fading away.
The appeal falls faster for women than men.

I'm a man that's pushing 30. I feel like I'm hitting my prime.
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Old 09-25-2015, 09:00 PM
 
Location: TN
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I've found love, more than once, and I wasn't even really trying.

Maybe the key is not to expect love, but to welcome it without too many expectations when it does come
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Old 09-25-2015, 09:05 PM
 
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I haven't noticed it. My cousin just got recently married. I just got recently married. I just feel the ones who have trouble finding love are setting their expectations too high. Some of these people got a list of what they want from their ideal partner but we all got flaw and you can't get all that you want in a person.
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Old 09-25-2015, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I haven't noticed it. My cousin just got recently married. I just got recently married. I just feel the ones who have trouble finding love are setting their expectations too high. Some of these people got a list of what they want from their ideal partner but we all got flaw and you can't get all that you want in a person.
Or maybe they've had bad luck.

The words in bold aren't necessarily true for those who have trouble in this regard.
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Old 09-25-2015, 09:14 PM
 
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I've found love, more than once, and I wasn't even really trying.

Maybe the key is not to expect love, but to welcome it without too many expectations when it does come
You're a female though probably very pretty and things seem to work differently for you than most men it seems.

I've wandered throughout my twenties into my mid thirties not expecting love and it amazing.. it never came

Now as I approach mid 30s I'm preparing for a life long solitude.. oh the joy

Maybe for some people those opportunities never come.. or probably more accurate they are missed. story of my life.. if natural selection is reality, than I wish it'd hurry the *** up.
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Old 09-25-2015, 09:22 PM
 
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well there you go not a nonconformist after all .. now if I just had the patience ...
It was more of a practical decision than anything. After I moved back here and started working white collar whilst not being in a band, it was more of a hassle than anything and I kept cutting it back further and further until a I point of, "Why do I even bother?". Before that it was 3/4ths the way down to my waist and I was on the verge of going all Tomi Joutsen epic dread with it.

I don't care either way. If something's in style that I think is cool, then: convenient, I'll rock that... but if I think something looks nonsense, I'll avoid it. A dapper punk look works for me overall.
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Old 09-25-2015, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Funny.

I have never met anyone who was secure, had their crap together, was kind/compassionate, put others before them, lived in service to their community, had an optimistic outlook on life, and had good manners who isn't happily married.

There are plenty of the opposite who are also married. But none like this who aren't.
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