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This whole thread seems to suggest logic takes priority to emotion/heart felt feelings and so on..WHY the heck can't a logical person be able to "Negotiate"? Then again IF you find a partner unwilling to negotiate..Then logic SHOULD tell you..NOPE..not worth my effort...
I'm wondering..why is it?..grown men and women seem to think that can change another?? especially adult folks...That's the heart talking!..
BUT in real life..IF you can't communicate without an out and out argument..tells the tale!! (unfortunately), that kind of relationship will never work and usually causes heart ache!!
I'm trying to help my son realize this very thing..unfortunately
What I'm trying to do is to cut a potentially detrimental relationship off BEFORE I catch feelings and fall in love with someone who I ain't compatible with.
Feelings aren't contagious.
You either have them, or you don't.
Your previous posts tell me, falling in love accidentally isn't on your Agenda, and isn't going to happen.
Me too, but I'm not buy all this hard flexing by some of you guys on here.
In reality, I can look at dating logically not emotionally because it takes me awhile to fall for a woman. Do I like them? Sure without a doubt. But I haven't fallen in love. She has to be very amazing for me to say the L word. In almost 26 years, I haven't dated such a woman yet. I hope I make sense.
Oh please. If years of growing up in some of Virginia's roughest neighborhoods didn't break me, neither will a woman.
But Diss, the first category aims to "break" you through darkness. The other is the complete opposite: Light. Love. Sweetness and all that good stuff. It can slip under your radar and nail you before you know what's hit you, because your radar is set up to home in on the dark stuff.
Just messing with you. But still...... Love can definitely sneak up on you like no tough guy possibly could.
Are you still in grad school, btw? Any fellow students in your classes with romantic potential? Or do you stay focused on work and coursework? No distractions?
Oh please. If years of growing up in some of Virginia's roughest neighborhoods didn't break me, neither will a woman.
I love how you know so much about something you've never experienced.
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