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What's really sick is he was cheating on the GF with Belle before, and now has them both (and God knows who else?) so who is being cheated on, Belle or the GF...God what a sordid mess! He sounds like a total dirtbag for real.
I got married about a month ago and I havent met my in laws yet because they live in another city. I think it’s weird that I havent met any of my husbands family but he does talk about them. When we got married we did the courthouse thing and plan to have an actual wedding once things slow down with him at work. So since there has not been a wedding I have not met any of his family yet. He has met my sister but I don’t have much family to introduce him to anymore.
Over the holidays like Christmas and Thanksgiving I expected us to go visit his family but he went alone both times. I asked him why we couldn’t go together and both times he told me he wanted to tell them in person he got married and not just over the phone and he wanted to be alone when he told them. So I stayed behind both times. But now I’m starting to wedding plan and when I ask when I can meet them he says soon but then changes the subject.
That seems weird right? Its not just me? I know they exist because I’ve seen pictures and stuff so I don’t know what it could be.
Not very wise of you.
You marry someone, you marry their family in ways large and small. Plus, in this case, the guy isn't willing to take you to meet them?
Have fun with the coming dysfunction in your life.
Given where she's come from in life and where she is now, there's an enormous potential up side if she can make this relationship work. Hypergamy is a wonderful thing if it works. I think she should give it her best shot for the next several months.
Geoff, I realize you think very highly of this guy because he's supposedly a wealthy white collar professional who travels internationally for business...but, the fact is, he doesn't treat her well.
Belle has come a long way. She has a job, an apartment, and she's going to school. If she can stay focused on finishing school, she will be just fine.
Keeping that focus isn't so easy, though, when you're anxious to start a family.
Geoff, I realize you think very highly of this guy because he's supposedly a wealthy white collar professional who travels internationally for business...but, the fact is, he doesn't treat her well.
Belle has come a long way. She has a job, an apartment, and she's going to school. If she can stay focused on finishing school, she will be just fine.
Keeping that focus isn't so easy, though, when you're anxious to start a family.
This guy is not wealthy nor a professional. He’s a dirt bag.
Has Belle confirmed that she’s still in school? I know someone asked but she never answered. I think she mentioned in another thread that she took a break from school.... I think it was the thread about “Not My Job”.
This guy is not wealthy nor a professional. He’s a dirt bag.
I know. That's why I said supposedly.
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Has Belle confirmed that she’s still in school?
Yep. She's still in school.
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Sorry for not posting everything has been crazy.
I can’t go into a lot of detail which I know may be annoying or frustrating but basically old behavior that was a problem last time around is not over and it’s still going on and worse than I thought. I still don’t know all the details (I don’t think I have anyway) and a lot of it is just gross. Basically I’ll say he’s keeping his ex around and has been apparently. Now he did tell me this. If someone really wants to know I’ll tell you in private message but it’s a crazy story and I’d rather not have people make fun of me or bring it up constantly or accuse me of lying or being a troll. Basically it’s not a good situation. But I don’t want it all out there either.
We are still together but I don’t really know what’s going to happen.
Thank you to everyone for the advice. I’m sorry if I didn’t answer everything but I try to read what I can and answer when I can, I work and go to school.
It makes perfect sense. When you're hidden away and the guy is hardly ever with you, you're the other woman.
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