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Old 08-03-2014, 06:12 PM
 
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He needs to learn the meaning of the expression "There but for the grace of God go I". Even if he doesn't believe in God, he needs to understand that but for other circumstances of birth, he could be one of the people whom he scorns. I would be sorely tempted to relieve him of the benefits of his good fortune until he understands what it's like for the less fortunate. They usually end up where they started, just as he is like to end up where he began.

Reminds me of this song that haunts me every time I hear it:
Everlast What It's Like

 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Bangor,Maine
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So you've given him a pass on his poor attitude and behavior because "he's smart and has a bright future" . Oh good just what we need; more people who feel they are above the behavior expectations of society because they are just so intelligent.
He will conform when he wants a result. His teachers wrote in their comments that he is such a nice and diligent students that came with the grades that he wanted. My daughter tells me that he sweettalks girls easily.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Dayton, Ohio
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He sounds like a Ted Bundy in the making.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Bangor,Maine
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He needs to learn the meaning of the expression "There but for the grace of God go I". Even if he doesn't believe in God, he needs to understand that but for other circumstances of birth, he could be one of the people whom he scorns. I would be sorely tempted to relieve him of the benefits of his good fortune until he understands what it's like for the less fortunate. They usually end up where they started, just as he is like to end up where he began.

Reminds me of this song that haunts me every time I hear it:
Everlast What It's Like
His belief that everyone is in control of their destiny and their state is a result of their actions. If I cut him off he wouldn't care. He makes money through tutoring,hunting, and working at the garage.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:18 PM
 
Location: Bangor,Maine
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He sounds like a Ted Bundy in the making.
Seems a little extreme. He is never had any history of violence although I fear that its based more off pragmatism then morals.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:18 PM
 
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He will conform when he wants a result. His teachers wrote in their comments that he is such a nice and diligent students that came with the grades that he wanted. My daughter tells me that he sweettalks girls easily.
You might be describing a personality disorder in the making. Time will tell.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Bangor,Maine
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Ask your brother to take him under his wing and mentor your son, specifically in the area of social behavior, manners, empathy and ethics.[/quote]

My brother is one of the most ruthless men I've ever seen, that's a terrible idea. They more or less share the same beliefs.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:22 PM
 
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My brother is one of the most ruthless men I've ever seen, that's a terrible idea. They more or less share the same beliefs.
Interesting. That means this personality runs in the family.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:23 PM
 
Location: Bangor,Maine
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You might be describing a personality disorder in the making. Time will tell.
Being manipulative does not constitute a personality disorder.
 
Old 08-03-2014, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Bangor,Maine
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Interesting. That means this personality runs in the family.
I don;t think this was inborn. I think for my son at least, he developed it over time. His mindset is survival of the fittest.
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