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Old 12-27-2010, 12:23 PM
 
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look out lightning is gonna strike in the land of rocky raccoon after that post
Here is hoping. I like a good thunderstorm.
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Old 12-27-2010, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Cardboard box
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Its hillarious how some women on here are ripping Men who dont have that ability, if Men on here rip women not knowing how to cook and do other household chores and say women arent what they used to be they get killed called pigs and say how they want a slave not a wife..

Women want gender roles or each gender to fit specific stereotypes when its beneficial to them..
Bingo. And it is even worse if we use the "primal" card.
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Old 12-27-2010, 12:50 PM
 
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Bingo. And it is even worse if we use the "primal" card.
Women will use the primal card for thmselves though when its beneficial as if its out of their hands and their being lead by something that happened thousands of years ago with no control over it or ability to use modern thinking to overcome it..

Id like to do that and hold myself responsible for nothing..Its hardwired into me i cant help it!!!!
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Old 12-27-2010, 01:22 PM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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No one says you have to help or fix anything for anyone. Just because I know how to do something, does not mean I will do it for a woman for free. If I am asked to *fix* something...I quote a price right away...usually last time I am asked
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Old 12-27-2010, 01:24 PM
 
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Yes, I expect my dh to be handy. I'm handy as well. Frankly, I don't buy into the idea that some people aren't capable of being handy. If you have a brain, you can figure out how to do pretty much anything. OTOH, a lack of time can be an issue, especially when there's a learning curve. My dh is learning as he goes. Our dryer just stopped working and his first instinct was to look into purchasing a new/used working dryer. We both have off this week and will figure out how to fix it ourselves if possible. Based on what I've been reading it looks like it might be as simple as replacing the belt.
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Old 12-27-2010, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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I prefer a cooking man. Handy is good, but cooking is great. I can outsource handy. Would like to come home and dinner on freshly made.
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Old 12-27-2010, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman who prefers a man with some skills over one that can't handle very basic household tasks. However, if this same woman can't hold her own when it comes to cooking, cleaning, etc., she has no right to demand Mr. Handyman.

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Seems a bit balanced .
^^ Ditto!
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Old 12-27-2010, 01:32 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yes, I expect my dh to be handy. I'm handy as well. Frankly, I don't buy into the idea that some people aren't capable of being handy. If you have a brain, you can figure out how to do pretty much anything. OTOH, a lack of time can be an issue, especially when there's a learning curve. My dh is learning as he goes. Our dryer just stopped working and his first instinct was to look into purchasing a new/used working dryer. We both have off this week and will figure out how to fix it ourselves if possible. Based on what I've been reading it looks like it might be as simple as replacing the belt.
It really depends on what is wrong with the dryer..... Sometimes it really is cheaper and easier to just buy something new.

Especially with electronics. We just had someone in our family tell us about their TV took a dumpski and the cost of repairing it was just about as cheap as getting a whole new unit.

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Old 12-27-2010, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Cardboard box
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Women will use the primal card for thmselves though when its beneficial as if its out of their hands and their being lead by something that happened thousands of years ago with no control over it or ability to use modern thinking to overcome it..

Id like to do that and hold myself responsible for nothing..Its hardwired into me i cant help it!!!!
I'm hardwired to only talk to blonde women with big assets who know how to cook and clean.
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Old 12-27-2010, 01:44 PM
 
Location: In a happy, quieter home now! :)
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nothing. I was just trying to make a joke. Some guys are good at drinking beer AND being a handyman
There ya go! I do both....but one night, years ago, when I was drinking beer and the kitchen plumbing started spewing water all over the place, (because I was fixing it), I had to call the plumber.
He sure saved my butt....so I tipped him $40.
I mean, come on....fix what needs to be fixed, do what needs to be done, and don't expect your wife to do it. If you don't want to, then you pay for it to be done for you. You're a man, aren't you?
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