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Old 02-14-2012, 04:35 AM
 
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So you tell your SO all the details of everyone you've slept with?!?
I mean the old man or any guy she may be using. Not telling the man that you're sleeping with him for his money. If you con him into thinking you really care for him he could get hurt. Although, it's probably a good idea to share important aspects of yourself (like prostitution) with a potential life partner.
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Old 02-14-2012, 04:42 AM
 
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I don't think it matters as most women do some form of it anyway.In that I mean most women tend to objectify their own sexuality.If you want to have sex with ME, you need to do this this and this, you need to have this this and this.This happens when its only one gender that decides IF and when there will be sex.I have never liked the fact that sex is held out like a carrot by alot of women.And alot of them don't even realise they are doing that, its sadly ingrained in our society.
So, any woman with preferences and standards is practicing a form of prostitution. Oh, and not only one gender gets to decide. 2:1 you could walk into any gay bar and have sex pretty quickly.
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Old 02-14-2012, 04:53 AM
 
Location: FL
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I mean the old man or any guy she may be using. Not telling the man that you're sleeping with him for his money. If you con him into thinking you really care for him he could get hurt. Although, it's probably a good idea to share important aspects of yourself (like prostitution) with a potential life partner.
Do you really think that these women care if they hurt the guy they're using? I doubt it.
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Old 02-14-2012, 04:59 AM
 
Location: FL
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So, any woman with preferences and standards is practicing a form of prostitution. Oh, and not only one gender gets to decide. 2:1 you could walk into any gay bar and have sex pretty quickly.
I think that you read too much into what the poster was saying. Some women act of tho they have a pot of gold between their legs. Think of the Lucky Charms commercial. The guy is the leprechaun and he keeps doing what he's told bc some women will tempt using the pot of gold. "Buy me dinner and drinks over a series of dates and you may get some". While not explicitly stated it is implicitly implied. Just see that other thread of the guy leaving a $1 tip.
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Old 02-14-2012, 05:29 AM
 
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Do you really think that these women care if they hurt the guy they're using? I doubt it.
I don't think they care, but two people mutually using each other is one thing vs conning a person that may be developing feelings.

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I think that you read too much into what the poster was saying. Some women act of tho they have a pot of gold between their legs. Think of the Lucky Charms commercial. The guy is the leprechaun and he keeps doing what he's told bc some women will tempt using the pot of gold. "Buy me dinner and drinks over a series of dates and you may get some". While not explicitly stated it is implicitly implied. Just see that other thread of the guy leaving a $1 tip.
You say some. He said most. And he notes generic standards (this and that). We all have them.
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Old 02-14-2012, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Amarillo, Tx
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Yeah I dont get why guys have to pay for something that is VERY easy to get for free. I dont get it. Just go out and talk and buy a few shots and done. I mean its not a challenge to get some these days. I think that most of these guys just like paying for things. And thats exactly how they see these women. As "things". Like a car or boat. They dont think your interesting, or a good person. Your a bought commodity. Or I should say rented commodity. And when you get a few miles on you they will trade you in just like their leased BMW.

And if your ok being some douchebags play thing then have at it. Its a free country. But word of wisdom. When you get tired of being used as a reseptacle and want a real relationship you better keep your past as a "sugar baby" a closely guarded secret. Because no decent guy wants some used up commodity.
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Old 02-14-2012, 08:48 AM
 
Location: southern california
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i think it its a good idea however the problem i am having is i am finding clusters of 60 year old women talking about finding a sugar daddy.
sounds like elder abuse to me. i wonder where these y generation kids get their distorted sense of self worth?
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Old 02-14-2012, 08:55 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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i think it its a good idea however the problem i am having is i am finding clusters of 60 year old women talking about finding a sugar daddy.
sounds like elder abuse to me. i wonder where these y generation kids get their distorted sense of self worth?

Perhaps they haven't heard your wife left and you're pockets are empty.

I'm kidding, but you must admit, you sure talk about it a lot.
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Old 02-14-2012, 09:48 AM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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So judging and choosing a man by his character, integrity, personality, and his overall quality as a person is considered low self-esteem if he isn't pulling down somewhere in the mid to high six figures or better? I hope you never have any daughters.

Most of the sugar daddy types I've known were strippers, or just lazy skanks with a sense of entitlement (Kardashian anyone?), who usually end up like Ginger from the movie Casino. The guys who usually buy into that sort of arrangement are pathetic, socially inept, or see everything in terms of material value. In other words, some people actually get what they deserve, and in such cases, each party is getting what they deserve in the end, which is most often nothing.
There are many women who work full time, are full time students, have careers, have a education, etc who have men in their lives that are financially generous and it does not always involve the exchange of sexual favors. Some men simply like to court and woo women.

Some men love to take care of the women in their lives. I have had men in my life who have been generous. I have never asked for money. I have never implied that I needed anything financially from them because I didn't. I have my own money, I have my education, I have my career. I don't "need" someone to take care of me. But I think that it is sad that young women today will have random sex with some guy because he bought her a shot of tequila at the bar. I feel sorry for that sex for a tequila shot girl, not for the woman who received a diamond necklace or a trip to Cabo from a man that she has been dating. I would never date a man who does not like to pamper and spoil me....because he would get the same from me.

Certain types of men hate the idea that the "sex for a shot of tequila girl" will actually get a clue and require more than just a tiny glass of cheap liquor to drop their undies.
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Old 02-14-2012, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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How is that any worse than prostituting yourself? You're all screwed up from where I sit.
The hilarious part is that she purposely didn't bold the part where I said "legitimate girlfriends notwithstanding." How telling is it that my refusal to spend much money on random women is considered "unsavory" to her?

Sure got a laugh out of me.
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