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Old 02-12-2012, 04:03 PM
 
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OH MY GOD.

How did I miss this about you before now?

For the record, you are clueless as to what a real marriage is all about
Some people only view the dynamic between men and women as a sex exchange. The kind of relationship that holds as much depth as two breeding dogs. The 24/7 commitment to a spouse, his/her family, his/her life dreams, his/her health, his/her emotional and spiritual development is a completely foreign concept.
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Old 02-12-2012, 04:12 PM
 
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I'm quite sure your daddy's raised. Let me see, Daddy's responsibility was to educate you, feed you, clothe you, bathe you, pamper you. Daddy did pay for everything didn't he? He is your father isn't he? Instead of marrying a sugar daddy, maybe they should go home and marry their real daddies. They are obviously very premature developed in their thinking and they are fully grown adults. They fit right in with Black Muslims females.
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Old 02-12-2012, 04:37 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Your logic is flawed at best. There is a pretty substantial difference between only dating someone you are attracted to versus dating someone for material benefit.
And what would that difference be?

Most women are attracted to men who can be providers and protectors. In our world that often equates to men who have more assets.

Men (especially those with few financial resources) have a tendency to believe that they "deserve" to have a beautiful woman on their arms simply because they are attracted to them. These same men expect beautiful women to forego their best interest (ie using their beauty to find the partner who has the best ability to provide for them) and date/marry losers. Then they proceed to call women "gold diggers" for not being willing to live a life of poverty. Why should a woman who looks like a supermodel settle for a guy who drives a trash truck for a living?
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Old 02-12-2012, 04:47 PM
 
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And what would that difference be?

Most women are attracted to men who can be providers and protectors. In our world that often equates to men who have more assets.

Men (especially those with few financial resources) have a tendency to believe that they "deserve" to have a beautiful woman on their arms simply because they are attracted to them. These same men expect beautiful women to forego their best interest (ie using their beauty to find the partner who has the best ability to provide for them) and date/marry losers. Then they proceed to call women "gold diggers" for not being willing to live a life of poverty. Why should a woman who looks like a supermodel settle for a guy who drives a trash truck for a living?
Thank you.

Thankfully for these men there are thousands of women with no self-esteem that will accept broke men with no drive into their lives which is evident by the amount of them living with children in trailerparks and ghettos.
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Old 02-12-2012, 04:52 PM
 
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And what would that difference be?
The difference exists between equals; financial and intellectual equals. While there are often differences due to gender, it's not innate.

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Thank you.

Thankfully for these men there are thousands of women with no self-esteem that will accept broke men with no drive into their lives which is evident by the amount of them living with children in trailerparks and ghettos.
Case in point.
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Old 02-12-2012, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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And what would that difference be?
About the difference between chicken salad and chicken ****.

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Most women are attracted to men who can be providers and protectors. In our world that often equates to men who have more assets.
Ahh, but the woman who are going after these sugar daddies are NOT attracted to the man. They are attracted to the status and material things.

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Men (especially those with few financial resources) have a tendency to believe that they "deserve" to have a beautiful woman on their arms simply because they are attracted to them. These same men expect beautiful women to forego their best interest (ie using their beauty to find the partner who has the best ability to provide for them) and date/marry losers. Then they proceed to call women "gold diggers" for not being willing to live a life of poverty. Why should a woman who looks like a supermodel settle for a guy who drives a trash truck for a living?
This is so off base I don't even know how to respond to it.
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Old 02-12-2012, 05:26 PM
 
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And what would that difference be?

Most women are attracted to men who can be providers and protectors. In our world that often equates to men who have more assets.

Men (especially those with few financial resources) have a tendency to believe that they "deserve" to have a beautiful woman on their arms simply because they are attracted to them. These same men expect beautiful women to forego their best interest (ie using their beauty to find the partner who has the best ability to provide for them) and date/marry losers. Then they proceed to call women "gold diggers" for not being willing to live a life of poverty. Why should a woman who looks like a supermodel settle for a guy who drives a trash truck for a living?
Wow. I just can't believe how off this is; I disagree on every one of these points....
All I can say is you are wrong. Seriously wrong
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Old 02-12-2012, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Some people only view the dynamic between men and women as a sex exchange. The kind of relationship that holds as much depth as two breeding dogs. The 24/7 commitment to a spouse, his/her family, his/her life dreams, his/her health, his/her emotional and spiritual development is a completely foreign concept.
Sad. And shallow
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Old 02-12-2012, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Why should a woman who looks like a supermodel settle for a guy who drives a trash truck for a living?
There is serious money in trash removal... and why be sexist about
it? The gal could be drivin' the trash truck.

Sounds like the perfect match-up for 2 very superficial people... one
figures the money will attract the partner while the other figures their
looks will attract the partner.
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Old 02-12-2012, 05:56 PM
 
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Sad. And shallow
It's sad for them. They have to live it (deservingly so, no doubt).
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