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Old 02-11-2012, 11:20 PM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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OK, let me explain this out and tell you how this thread came about. A few days ago I met up with a friend. I am 28, single for 2 years (divorced), she's 27 single for almost three (never married). We are both educated, have jobs, attractive, take care of ourselves (work out), and are very decent people. A friend of hers came along, she's 25, did not finish college and seems to be enjoying life pretty good.

We were talking about many things and eventually got down to men. My friend's friend said to us that she got tired of dating losers, getting her heart broken, and having a hard time finding Mr. Right so she decided to "invest her time" dating a suggar daddy until Mr. Right comes into her life. She said that the men she was meeting were just interested in getting laid and since she also has her needs, why not get something for it. She figured that seems she was getting frustrated all the time while dating, she might as well date and get something from it in the form of travel, clothes, fine dining, jewerly, and the likes.

My friend and I looked at each other and laughed. We shared with her our less than impressive latest dating adventures and how difficult we were finding to meet a good man. The woman's answer to us was "why don't the two of you date a suggar daddy until you find your Mr. Right? That way you won't be alone and will get to enjoy yourselves by being spoiled."

I must admit that the thought of being spoiled sounds very enticing but at the same time I can't sleep with a man I am not attracted to, and I have yet to learn dettachement from sex. Once I sleep with a man I can't date another one during that time. Darn oxytocin Aren't all suggar daddies old men too? Like my dad's age? I am not sure if this is still in
my mind because I don't seem to meet a decent man, and VD is around the corner.

Has anybody here ever dated a suggar daddy/mamma? If so, how did you get into it? Pros/cons?
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:33 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Should?

The can do whatever they like.
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:46 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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and since she also has her needs, why not get something for it. She figured that seems she was getting frustrated all the time while dating, she might as well date and get something from it in the form of travel, clothes, fine dining, jewerly, and the likes.

Trading sex for cash and prizes. . . . . . .
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:46 PM
 
Location: Utah
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Aren't all suggar daddies old men too? Like my dad's age?
Has anybody here ever dated a suggar daddy/mamma? If so, how did you get into it? Pros/cons?
No. There are a good share of young sugar daddies. However you have to watch out for the young ones because they are more likely to turn out to be someone like Jason Derek Brown. Older sugar daddies are your best bet because their age implies that they earned their money or if they were given the money they know how to take care of it.

I am married to a Sugar Daddy of sorts. He loves to pay for things. I hate that ALOT. We met and married for other reasons. However there are classes dedicated to landing yourself a sugar daddy and if you are serious about getting yourself one then be prepared to work because they are not easy to find and you are going to have to upgrade yourself and your social circle in order to get one since rich people don't hang out at your typical locations and they are looking for certain things.

Also realize that what you are doing is a business transaction. You are expected to behave a certain way, make appearances when they like along with keeping up your appearance and to be on call for their sexual urges. It isn't all a bed of roses like most people would have you believe. Landing a sugar daddy and keeping a sugar daddy is a full time job.
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:48 PM
 
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Sounds like prostitution...
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:50 PM
 
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Trading sex for cash and prizes. . . . . . .
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Sounds like prostitution...
I has a connection
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:51 PM
 
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I don't know. If other women want to do it and the men know what they are getting in to, why not?

I couldn't do it. I think of sugar daddies as men who can't keep a good woman on merit alone. If they have to "buy" their way into someone's pants...not my kind of guy.
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Old 02-11-2012, 11:51 PM
 
Location: Utah
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Sounds like prostitution...
Yep. High class prostitution. Much like being an escort or a street worker but with more stable partners, fewer partners ( depends on the sugar daddy of course since you will NOT be the one calling the shots no matter what you think. Gotta keep that cash flowing at all costs right? ) and a clear understanding of what is expected along with less potential of winding up in a ditch somewhere.
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Old 02-12-2012, 12:01 AM
 
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I must admit that the thought of being spoiled sounds very enticing but at the same time I can't sleep with a man I am not attracted to, and I have yet to learn dettachement from sex. Once I sleep with a man I can't date another one during that time. Darn oxytocin Aren't all suggar daddies old men too? Like my dad's age? I am not sure if this is still in
my mind because I don't seem to meet a decent man, and VD is around the corner.

Has anybody here ever dated a suggar daddy/mamma? If so, how did you get into it? Pros/cons?
Why says you can't see one your attracted to?

There are those in their 30's who aren't ready, or are too busy to have a 'real relationship'

(Similar to FWB)
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Old 02-12-2012, 12:16 AM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman chosing to date men who have money if the relationship is mutually beneficial.
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