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I personally don't think nice guys finish last OR first. I don't think that's really the issue. It's just that life sucks a lot of the time, unless you are one of the few lucky people who gets what you want. It does not really matter whether you are nice or not nice. If you are lucky, women adore you. If you are cursed, women ignore you. I don't think that being nice has much of an impact positively OR negatively on getting the ladies. It might get you some points with the Man Upstairs, but i don't think it has much to do with getting laid more often.
Life is just a roll of the dice. A small percentage of guys are blessed with the looks, money, and good game... and the rest of us are just Average Frustrated Chumps.
Anyway... hopefully that is a different perspective to a hotly debated topic.
i agree with ur theory that they dont finish first or last.. i think its very subjective and depends on the type of girl ur trying to attract or the what the type of guy a girl is looking for
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I personally don't think nice guys finish last OR first. I don't think that's really the issue. It's just that life sucks a lot of the time, unless you are one of the few lucky people who gets what you want. It does not really matter whether you are nice or not nice. If you are lucky, women adore you. If you are cursed, women ignore you. I don't think that being nice has much of an impact positively OR negatively on getting the ladies. It might get you some points with the Man Upstairs, but i don't think it has much to do with getting laid more often.
Life is just a roll of the dice. A small percentage of guys are blessed with the looks, money, and good game... and the rest of us are just Average Frustrated Chumps.
Anyway... hopefully that is a different perspective to a hotly debated topic.
It depends on the type of nice guy. A lot of nice guys and jerks are practically two sides of the same coin.
Assertive guys finish first. Passive guys will more likely than not finish last.
So yeah, I definitely agree with you.
Be nice, be a jerk, just go get it... if you want it.
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Please no more nice guy threads.
