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Ok guys you asked and now you've got it. We had a fight about other problems like her depression low self esteem, her personal problems in life etc and she told me "I think we should break up you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone like me". I said "ok if it's that what you want".
As I won't chase her because i don't chase women i'll see what happens...I'm done!
Sooooo ...
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Originally Posted by joshuason77
I'm 30 she's 33...We've been dating for almost a year, recently we had a fight about having children as i'm not ready for marriage and kids but i think she wants because of her biological clock. We both are divorced but she said she wants to think about her life if she wants marriage/kids or not but i think that deep inside her heart she already wants. I like her a lot but i think we should focus more in our life, our dating, get to know each other better, our relatiohship and let our future our destiny decide for both of us... it's too soon to talk about marriage and kids but I understand her. I'm not dating her just for dating, i love her i want her but i don't want to rush things, i'm just careful even with we're both are divorced so i think we should go slow...i'm not sure if she would agree with me. What to do? What should I tell her?
Anyway I'm very sad because she said she wants to think about us but i believe she wants do break up!
Folks, that's what i think is happening. This age I don't trust women, women aren't trustworthy...that's the truth. She might have a back-up plan, a guy that would marry her and have kids. So she's wondering and asking me "If he doesn't want to marry me and give me babies, i'll marry my back-up plan"!
I'm 30 she's 33...We've been dating for almost a year, recently we had a fight about having children as i'm not ready for marriage and kids but i think she wants because of her biological clock. We both are divorced but she said she wants to think about her life if she wants marriage/kids or not but i think that deep inside her heart she already wants. I like her a lot but i think we should focus more in our life, our dating, get to know each other better, our relatiohship and let our future our destiny decide for both of us... it's too soon to talk about marriage and kids but I understand her. I'm not dating her just for dating, i love her i want her but i don't want to rush things, i'm just careful even with we're both are divorced so i think we should go slow...i'm not sure if she would agree with me. What to do? What should I tell her?
Anyway I'm very sad because she said she wants to think about us but i believe she wants do break up!
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Originally Posted by joshuason77
Folks, that's what i think is happening. This age I don't trust women, women aren't trustworthy...that's the truth. She might have a back-up plan, a guy that would marry her and have kids. So she's wondering and asking me "If he doesn't want to marry me and give me babies, i'll marry my back-up plan"!
If that is your truth she should dump you and start dating adults.
Folks, that's what i think is happening. This age I don't trust women, women aren't trustworthy...that's the truth. She might have a back-up plan, a guy that would marry her and have kids. So she's wondering and asking me "If he doesn't want to marry me and give me babies, i'll marry my back-up plan"!
Psssh. Speculation.
You can believe all that ^^ if you want to, but your raging insecurity and emotional instability are to blame as well.
Please break up with this woman and let her have what she desires.
You are soooo NOT the guy to give her marriage and a family, what with your anger and jealousy issues. You both will be miserable, and that is no way to raise kids.
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Speculation.
