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It's not creepy at all. It's 2 years for crying out loud. Anyone who finds this creepy and offensive needs to focus their energy on other things. It's not that serious.
I did. I told him how he might work through this situation, based on my own experience (I am almost 4 years older than my wife 32/28, but when we met she was a college freshmen and I had just graduated). Her dad, a pretty tough mofo, didn't like the age difference but I was respectful of his daughter and her parents. We we dated as "friends" and things developed from there. It's almost 6 years of marriage in Nov, so what seemed trivial at the time, really wasn't in the long run.
I see your point though, I might've hurt the young brotha's feelings so... Op if i did, please excuse my sarcasm. But, do take my advice
I am now that tough mofo of a beautiful teen daughter... Do not make me mad - I have a shotgun and keys to that college tuition bank. Your approach would work with me. Nicely played.
So I'm a 19 year old freshman in college, just turned 19 not a while ago and a few weeks over the summer for a while, I got really close with this girl and developed feelings for her and I think she feels the same. However, she's a 17 year old HS senior and due to that, I'm not sure if I should try and pursue a relationship.
Was pretty convinced you were serious until I read the punchline.
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Originally Posted by kamenriderbrave
It's not like a 20 year old dating a 17 year old, right as I don't like the idea of a much older guy pursuing a HS girl.
So I'm a 19 year old freshman in college, just turned 19 not a while ago and a few weeks over the summer for a while, I got really close with this girl and developed feelings for her and I think she feels the same. However, she's a 17 year old HS senior and due to that, I'm not sure if I should try and pursue a relationship. College isn't too far from her, but still. I really do like her, but I'm unsure of what to do now. It's not like a 20 year old dating a 17 year old, right as I don't like the idea of a much older guy pursuing a HS girl.
I didn't have time to go through the entire thread to see if you already answered the following question.
It's the only question that truly matters here.
Are you or are you not breaking the law?
If you don't know the answer, you better find out quick!
My 17-year-old daughter had a 19-year-old boyfriend. They're now 20 and 22.
I never said it couldn't work out. I said some people may find it weird/creepy as the OP described.
The OP is asking this question because he knows people may think that way and he's leery to deal with it.
I know people who think that way. Again, maybe I'm in the most conservative backwards area around, but this is my experience.
But many people around me have said it's ok though
You said you wanted our answers and we gave you our answers.
If you're this sure it's all fine then you don't need us or our input in the first place. We gave it anyway so accept it graciously and then do what you want.
But many people around me have said it's ok though
And what does she and her parents say?
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