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So I found a girl via FB that I knew from HS. Thing is I wasn't really nice to her and kind of a jerk back then even calling her ugly. She had a bad acme problem and used to dress with very baggy clothes and was pretty shy. It has been 8 years since graduating and I am not like that anymore. And I must say, she has gotten VERY attractive. Like night and day difference.
Looking at her interests and such we have a lot in common and live very close. Would it be wrong to ask her out?
What makes you think she would want anything to do with you after the way you treated her? I'm sure she has not forgotten how big of an ass you were to her back then.
What makes you think she would want anything to do with you after the way you treated her? I'm sure she has not forgotten how big of an ass you were to her back then.
Well I would hope she would realize people change a lot since HS and maybe she could get to know the new me.
Well I would hope she would realize people change a lot since HS and maybe she could get to know the new me.
How have you changed? You judged her worth on her looks then and you're judging her worth on her looks now. Be honest with yourself. If she still had acne and wore baggy clothes but you appeared to have similar interests, would you be eager to ask her out?
I mean you can try. I personally have never met a person who was that much of a jerk - literally calling a person ugly to his/her face (maybe if it had happened at age five with zero maturity or consciousness of hurt feelings but by high school? Come on) - who didn't grow up to be still a jerk, but a better disguised one. I mean there's stupid teen stuff and accidental cruelty, but this was deliberate and you know it had to be amazingly hurtful and knew it then, unless you were unconscious. But maybe it does happen and you have had some sort of epiphany. If so, sure, give it a whirl. I feel like she will probably simply not reply but who knows?
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