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Old 10-19-2017, 04:36 PM
 
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It could very well be, but I still don't regret my actions that night.
Okay, well then you need to understand that women won't be lining up for the mentally unstable man with the cowardly violent streak.
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Old 10-19-2017, 04:57 PM
 
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Okay, well then you need to understand that women won't be lining up for the mentally unstable man with the cowardly violent streak.
Well what should I do then? Go to therapy or something? The way I see it, my honour and pride were insulted that night, and that what I eneded up doing was only thing I could really do to not appear totally weak and complacent. Other guys taking prospective partners from me has happened before. For example, the first girl I ever did anything with ended up ditching me for some guy and running off to California with him. This time I at least got the last word in.
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Old 10-19-2017, 05:12 PM
 
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This guy had no idea you even existed, correct?
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Old 10-19-2017, 05:37 PM
 
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This guy had no idea you even existed, correct?
I would assume so, I didn't know he did either. Regardless, that girl was really stupid for bringing him to that show. I mean, what did she expect was going to happen?

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Old 10-19-2017, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Well what should I do then? Go to therapy or something? The way I see it, my honour and pride were insulted that night, and that what I eneded up doing was only thing I could really do to not appear totally weak and complacent. Other guys taking prospective partners from me has happened before. For example, the first girl I ever did anything with ended up ditching me for some guy and running off to California with him. This time I at least got the last word in.
Yup, therapy would be more than ideal for you. Like people have said, the guy didn't even do anything to you, nor did he even know you existed.

And just the fact that you bragged about it is sad. Be thankful that the guy had no fighting ability, cause it may not have ended well for you in that case.

This is assuming what you said is even true.
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Old 10-19-2017, 07:08 PM
 
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Yup, therapy would be more than ideal for you. Like people have said, the guy didn't even do anything to you, nor did he even know you existed.

And just the fact that you bragged about it is sad. Be thankful that the guy had no fighting ability, cause it may not have ended well for you in that case.

This is assuming what you said is even true.
Those events did unfold as I described them. I really do feel a bit better about the whole situation doing what I did; with this I don't feel as defeated as in the past. Either way, there must be something about me that must drive women away from me eventually. As stated before, they never pick me in the end.

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Old 10-19-2017, 07:21 PM
 
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Everyone believes you. No, really.

Yes, I think therapy would be a VERY good idea for you.
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Old 10-19-2017, 09:09 PM
 
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Yes, I think therapy would be a VERY good idea for you.
It might be time, all this is really making me disillusioned. Before the events of last Saturday I thought things might have had a better chance of working out this time around. Now it's turned once again into more of the same. I want a relationship, but since nothing's ever gone right every time I feel like I can't trust women at all. I've kept getting my hopes up to no avail.

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Old 10-20-2017, 01:40 AM
 
Location: Removing a snake out of the neighbor's washing machine
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I am a pagan, quit with the unsolicited Christian advice

Well in that case, if you're in the same boat as the O.P.: Stop trying so hard! Get a hobby. And happy Samhain!
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Old 10-20-2017, 08:35 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I would assume so, I didn't know he did either. Regardless, that girl was really stupid for bringing him to that show. I mean, what did she expect was going to happen?
You'd said that you'd never talked about being exclusive, so what gave you the right to assault anyone? You met someone on an app and hooked up a couple of times. That doesn't make her your property.
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