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OK but how did you two end up going from "meeting" to "having sex a few times"?
I actually met her on Tinder. Interestingly enough, all the five women I have done anything with have had some connection to the app. The first chronological three, the ones I didn't end up having sex with, were ones I matched with on there but first started talking to after meeting them by chance in public. These last chronological two, the ones I did have sex with, were ones I first made contact with on the app. In the case of this last one, she messaged me first and I started talking to her from there. After a few days I met her in person. Initially, it all progressed extremely quickly; we first had sex after less than an hour of meeting her. I think looking for girls on Tinder may actually be to blame for some of my problems with respect to my lack of a girlfriend, but thus far it's proven the only reliable way I've been able to get at least some results with women. I'd love to meet a girl the normal way (not using some retarded app as a crutch), but it's never come close to happening like that.
I actually met her on Tinder. Interestingly enough, all the five women I have done anything with have had some connection to the app. The first chronological three, the ones I didn't end up having sex with, were ones I matched with on there but first started talking to after meeting them by chance in public. These last chronological two, the ones I did have sex with, were ones I first made contact with on the app. In the case of this last one, she messaged me first and I started talking to her from there. After a few days I met her in person. Initially, it all progressed extremely quickly; we first had sex after less than an hour of meeting her. I think looking for girls on Tinder may actually be to blame for some of my problems with respect to my lack of a girlfriend, but thus far it's proven the only reliable way I've been able to get at least some results with women. I'd love to meet a girl the normal way (not using some retarded app as a crutch), but it's never come close to happening like that.
Meeting a woman anywhere is normal. I'm assuming you mean in real life.
And plenty of people find long-term relationships from dating apps. Don't blame the apps. It seems like the women you were with didn't want anything serious (whether you had met them on dating apps/sites or in real life).
Meeting a woman anywhere is normal. I'm assuming you mean in real life.
And plenty of people find long-term relationships from dating apps. Don't blame the apps. It seems like the women you were with didn't want anything serious (whether you had met them on dating apps/sites or in real life).
I wonder if any women around here want any of the same thing that I do. It really seems like they never do. All my past experiences have made me lose faith. Either that, or there's something about me that ends up turning these girls off eventually. I have no idea what it actually is, but it almost seems that there's recurring patterns in it. I always am never talking to one girl for more than a few weeks, and I only end up hanging out with them about three times. Nothing ever ends up working for some reason.
I also played bass in a rock band (Rickenbacker 4001 mostly), and during high school, and college, but I didn't have really long hair, or anything, so I just looked at what my band mates, and their girlfriends used to call "normal". I never had problems meeting women as often some would chat me up after a set. If I liked them, I'd ask them out.
Cut your hair, and stop smoking pot. Where decent clothes. Are you physically active? Do you work out?
I also played bass in a rock band (Rickenbacker 4001 mostly), and during high school, and college, but I didn't have really long hair, or anything, so I just looked at what my band mates, and their girlfriends used to call "normal". I never had problems meeting women as often some would chat me up after a set. If I liked them, I'd ask them out.
Cut your hair, and stop smoking pot. Where decent clothes. Are you physically active? Do you work out?
I don't lift weights or anything, but I often train martial arts by myself. It's also quite hilly where I live, so even walking around my town does some good as well.
The fact that you boasted about sucker punching a stranger who did nothing wrong indicates to me that yes, the problem is YOU. People can sense a loose canon.
The fact that you boasted about sucker punching a stranger who did nothing wrong indicates to me that yes, the problem is YOU. People can sense a loose canon.
I read a bit but not all of this. All I can say is that having a long shopping list of required traits for a partner almost never works out. For example, I am definitely a history, language and culture nerd who was studious and academic in college, but I also partied with my friends at times and liked going out. That would rule me out already for you based on one aspect. Then you'd go around complaining that you're so lonely and you can't ever find a woman for you.
Get with real life and understand that no one will ever check all the boxes.
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