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If someone told me that, I’d tell him to shove off. I don’t want anyone to “show me off” like some sort of trophy or prize. Part of what seems to have happened during the pandemic is that people realized that certain outfits were actually not all that comfortable. Yeah you make look cute in heels, tons of makeup, and with some fancy hairdo, but is the experience of wearing the clothes pleasant? I think a lot of people just got to the point where they were home and comfy and realized that hey- being at home and comfy is actually kind of nice!
I still do fitness activities, mainly because doing physical activity makes me feel better. I am not a partner fitness person though. I would much rather have a specific goal I mind to do myself than go to a class with a friend or partner. I have a friend who is a fitness instructor. She became one when she was working from home because it was a decent way for her to get out of the house and burn off some energy without the kids.
I got the impression from the OP that his wife had just sort of stopped caring for herself and nobody mentioned a makeover with high heels and fancy hair. Washed and styled hair, a shower and at least decent clothes would make a big difference.
My significant other started becoming less interested in his appearance almost as soon as he moved in with me. Wouldn't shower unless I told him he needed one; only brushed his teeth every few days, practically shaved his head when he looked 100% better with his hair longer. That and so many other things just became a complete turn-off for me. Thankfully I didn't marry him despite him pressuring me into it. I finally had enough and he left last month.
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