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This is a load of crap that predatory gay men try to sell to straight men in order to get down their pants. Try to convince all straight men that they have some deep hidden homosexual fantasy and that's alright to let it out. Those of us who claim not to have any such fantasy or desires get labeled as homophobes or liars. Typical delusional behavior by jilted gays. You think you are too smart for us hetero men on here, well, enjoy your gay fantasies but don't tell us that there is something wrong with us. YOU are the one who is struggling with his sexuality, not us. You have such a strong desire to get your joint copped by a dude at the age of 30...well what are you waiting for, if you're so intelligent then this should be a no-brainer. Clearly you are in the midst of confusion. The rest of us are perfectly happy with the opposite sex.
Big ups to you....as I was reading this thread I'm thinking why do people have to try to justify their activities by implicating the rest of the world?, especially in terms of sexuality? If you are comfortable with what you do, then do your thing. Don't worry about the next man!
This is a load of crap that predatory gay men try to sell to straight men in order to get down their pants. Try to convince all straight men that they have some deep hidden homosexual fantasy and that's alright to let it out. Those of us who claim not to have any such fantasy or desires get labeled as homophobes or liars. Typical delusional behavior by jilted gays. You think you are too smart for us hetero men on here, well, enjoy your gay fantasies but don't tell us that there is something wrong with us. YOU are the one who is struggling with his sexuality, not us. You have such a strong desire to get your joint copped by a dude at the age of 30...well what are you waiting for, if you're so intelligent then this should be a no-brainer. Clearly you are in the midst of confusion. The rest of us are perfectly happy with the opposite sex.
First of All what are you even doing answering on a forum with the topic of discussion?? (If you are in fact true to your inner feelings..). Your response alone confirms my theory of Human's natural ability to be curious...SEE, YOU"RE THINKING ABOUT IT RIGHT NOW!!!! lol...Thats why you came here to answer! Not because you are secure in your feelings that you, in fact, aren't...
And as far Gay Men wanting to get in your drauws, WOW! Where were you that put you in a position or allowed you that impression??? (hmmmm...)
Homophobes, not necessarily, Liars to your ability to want to be curious to MANY different things in life, probably true...We all are to a certain extent, and thats something I strive to change about myself, not my sexual curiousness, but my ability to do whatever the hell I want! and be over it....If tommorow it became socially acceptable to do "weird" things in society you would see an upsurge of different ideas and thought that go on to be actions!....always been the case, has everything to do with your percieved place in society, and much less the actual concept or breif example of Homosexuality...its just an example that can be easily discussed.
Well to be honest male sex is penetrating and transmitting. When women fool around, nothing transmits. With heterosexuality, men transmit and women receive. Thus men may pass along, but typically it is more difficult to contract. With gay sex, men transmit and receive. Men with polygamous unrestrained sex drives tend to see disease spread like butter on hot muffins.
That is why there is a stigma. Its another one of those rather poorly thought out concepts where people do not see the biological underpinnings and the basic survival instincts of the species. That is why society is most repulsed by male homosexuality and probably always will be. Sex is a risk since intimacy is also a pathogenic highway.
I just don't find men sexually attractive. Even in cases of pornography or erotica , if men are present, its not even tempting to me. I would rather watch cartoons.
Though I have been friends with gay men and they are a different kind of person and do have personality combinations not found elsewhere. So I can and do find them stylish and charming when I meet them from time to time.
Very good Post buddy, and your variation of curiousity falls more on the lower scale, and thats fine and [normal]....the problem I see is the lack of freedom and expression to whatever you want to do, not just sexual experimentation....I want to venture to say its impossible to say you never thought of a penis thats not yours, that would mean you are brain dead...Now on that note, you may have natural stimuli that inhibit you from thinking any further about it but thats also normal for any heterosexual man, you are much more Heter-motivated than you could ever be Homo-motivated...
You seem like a smart person, do you understand my argument? Humans think of all kinds of stuff throughout life, our natural ability to have thoughts and take them to "extreme" and oscillate upon the "norm", thats how we survive and progress. So I doubt many men have just never had thoughts that involved the same sex, it just doesn't make sense to an Intellectual. And thats being real...
This is a load of crap that predatory gay men try to sell to straight men in order to get down their pants. Try to convince all straight men that they have some deep hidden homosexual fantasy and that's alright to let it out. Those of us who claim not to have any such fantasy or desires get labeled as homophobes or liars. Typical delusional behavior by jilted gays. You think you are too smart for us hetero men on here, well, enjoy your gay fantasies but don't tell us that there is something wrong with us. YOU are the one who is struggling with his sexuality, not us. You have such a strong desire to get your joint copped by a dude at the age of 30...well what are you waiting for, if you're so intelligent then this should be a no-brainer. Clearly you are in the midst of confusion. The rest of us are perfectly happy with the opposite sex.
And Trust Me Kid! I'm not struggling at all with my sexuality..The word "struggling" in context means that I would be conflicted with what I (or society) thinks I should be interested in...That just doesnt apply..The reason I am happy and get everything I want from life is because I'm self-aware...I dont have hangups about what society thinks. Im a rebel WITH a cause and feel free because of it. So don't worry, I have every intention to get my balls licked when or if the time is ever right (nothing I need to be pressed about), does that make me bisexual?? OMG, I have to go tell my mom!!!....(LOL, secretly snickering @ struggling with my sexuality..)
The principle that I'm trying to relay is "doing you", not "doing society"...many of the posts here (not necessarily yours) are motivated by inner fear and not reality....Like I said, the results would have been much different if one asked "have you ever been curious to what it would be like to eat mayonaisse if you never have??"...mayonaisse does not have a social stigma attached to it either, and everybody eats it...that would be a weird a$s question but you get my drift....lol
And by the way, I'm Heterosexual. I LOVE sex with women and have never had any sexual experiences with men....that doesn't mean my mind isn't capable of "drifting"....Im a thinker, its in my blood. Have those thoughts overtaken me? of course not! But then again for me, curiosity of anything is usually dampened by my ability to get it if I want, its not a mystery anymore.
LMAOOOO, Ok Chessie Mom! but you know what? so do I, but we know that because it tastes horrible, Key word:TASTES
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